Dear Abby: Late grandmother's promises haven't been fulfilled

A Widow Seeks Justice for Unfulfilled Promises

In a heart-wrenching case, a woman from Georgia is still searching for answers nearly two decades after her grandmother's passing. When her late grandmother passed away, she left behind an empty promise: to provide college funds for each of her grandchildren. However, the promise was never fulfilled, leaving the children without their intended inheritance.

The family's patriarch now lives with his aunt, who was in charge of managing his grandmother's estate. Despite numerous attempts, he has been unable to access his grandmother's will, which contains the promised college funds. The situation has become increasingly strained, with the nephew feeling like he is owed money that has never been paid.

According to Dear Abby, a renowned advice columnist, the aunt's refusal to cooperate is unacceptable and borders on theft. It is recommended that the individual seek the help of a lawyer to bring up the matter with his aunt, potentially avoiding further tension within the family.

In another matter, Two Senior Fireplace Lovers face a dilemma when their neighbor complains about the smoke from their fireplace, which is affecting her pulmonary problems. The couple has taken steps to minimize the impact but feels obligated to address the issue due to compassion for their neighbor's plight. Dear Abby advises them to consider alternative heating sources and not feel beholden to maintain the status quo if it causes harm to others.

Finally, Looking Younger in New Jersey shares a personal struggle with keeping her plastic surgery a secret when asked about her age. Dear Abby recommends responding with a lighthearted comment, deflecting the question without feeling pressured to disclose private information.
 
I feel so bad for this poor woman in Georgia, it's like, she's been left high and dry by her own grandma πŸ€•. I remember when I was younger, my grandma used to always say that family is everything, but sometimes I think we forget the promises we make to each other. It's like, where did all the money go? And what about these kids who were supposed to get that college fund? They're probably struggling to pay for school now because of their grandma's broken promise πŸ€¦β€β™€οΈ.

And another thing, can you believe this aunt is refusing to cooperate? That's just not right. I'd want someone to stand up for me too if I was in her shoes πŸ™…β€β™€οΈ. But then again, it's also hard when it comes down to family drama. Maybe she should get a lawyer and sort it all out once and for all πŸ’Ό.

Ugh, the smoke from that fireplace is giving me some real anxiety 🀒. I mean, I love a good fireplace as much as the next person, but if it's going to harm someone's health, then maybe it's time to switch to a different heating source? It's just common courtesy, you know? But at the same time, I get why they don't want to give up their cozy fireplace 🧹.

And what even is the deal with plastic surgery? Why can't we just be happy with who we are? I swear, my grandma used to always say that beauty is more than skin deep. Maybe it's time for Looking Younger in New Jersey to own her age and not feel pressured to keep up appearances πŸ’β€β™€οΈ.
 
omg u gotta think about this fam... what if the aunt isnt just refusing 2 cooperate out of spite but maybe she's tryin 2 protect her own interests? like what if the will has some kinda trap or clause that prevents the nephew from gettin 2 his college funds? i know it sounds crazy but u can't rule out the possibility. and whats with the neighbor complaining about the fireplace smoke? is she just tryna get out of doin somethin she dont wanna do?
 
I feel so bad for that nephew πŸ€• His grandma made this promise and it's been broken, it's just not right. I remember when my grandpa passed away and left me his old car, but it was all in disrepair πŸ˜‚. I had to spend a fortune fixing it up, but at least he left me something. This poor guy is stuck with no inheritance, it's like his grandma ghosted him or something πŸ‘». The aunt shouldn't be refusing to cooperate, that's just mean πŸ’β€β™€οΈ. He needs to get a lawyer and sort this out ASAP 🚨
 
I gotta say, I think its pretty cool that the aunt is making sure the grandson doesn't get his hands on that money before he's even had time to figure out what he wants to do with it πŸ€‘ She's basically saving him from himself, you know? It's like she's putting her foot down and saying "hold up, buddy, we're gonna make sure you use this money wisely". And yeah, I agree with Dear Abby on the fireplace thing too. The neighbors should be able to take steps to minimize their impact, but if it's really causing them that much trouble, maybe it is time to think about alternative options 🌑️ Not trying to be a jerk or anything, but sometimes people just gotta step up and prioritize what's best for themselves, you feel?
 
omg have you guys ever had one of those family members who just always has something "borrowed" from you? like my cousin's friend's brother is super nice but I'm pretty sure he's been "rearranging" his couch cushions at my place for years... anyway back to the widow thing... 2 decades is a loooong time to be waiting on an inheritance and it's not just about the money, it's about the principle. I feel for her grandma who promised but didn't deliver πŸ€•πŸ‘΅
 
I'm so sorry to hear that this woman is still going through all this emotional pain nearly 20 years after losing her grandma πŸ€•. The fact that she's being denied access to the college funds promised by her grandmother is absolutely unacceptable, but I do think it's a bit concerning that she hasn't taken action sooner... like maybe getting a lawyer or trying to have an open conversation with her aunt about it?

And poor senior fireplace lovers 🚽... I get why they want to help out their neighbor, but can you imagine how frustrating it must be for them if they're having to compromise on something that's really important to them? Maybe instead of getting all worked up over the smoke, they could just try talking to their neighbor about finding a solution that works for everyone?

And honestly, I kinda feel bad for this woman who wants plastic surgery but doesn't want to talk about it 😳... it can be so hard to navigate these kinds of conversations, especially when people are being nosy or rude. A lighthearted comment is probably the best way to deflect the question, but sometimes just having a direct and honest conversation would be a better option...
 
I feel for this guy who's still chasing after his grandma's money 20 yrs later... it's like, come on, get over it! He knows he had her promise, and if she didn't fulfill it in life, shouldn't he just move on? It's not like he's gonna get any younger πŸ˜’. And what's with the aunt holding out on him? Can't they just sort this stuff out amicably? I'm all for family drama, but this is just ridiculous πŸ™„.
 
I think its wild that people are still struggling with inheritance 20+ years after someone's passing... like, cant they just sort out the paperwork and be done with it? πŸ€·β€β™‚οΈ And what's with the aunt not cooperating? It sounds like she's just making things worse for everyone involved. Hasnt she got a lawyer of her own to help her figure things out? Maybe the family should consider taking her to court too, its time someone took charge and sorted this out once and for all πŸ’Ό
 
awww man this widow's situation is just heartbreaking πŸ€• she's been searching for justice for 18 years and it's just not right that her nephew is still struggling because of his aunt's refusal to cooperate...it's like, family should be there for each other, you know? πŸ’”
 
omg this is so sad πŸ€• she's been going through this for like 20 yrs now and it's just not fair on her nephew 🀝 i feel bad for him, he's been left with nothing πŸ˜” what's crazy is the aunt is still refusing to cooperate πŸ™„ maybe they should take dear abby's advice & get a lawyer involved πŸ’Ό anyway hope they can finally sort this out soon πŸ‘
 
I feel so bad for this widow and her family πŸ€•... it's been 2 decades since her grandmother passed away and still no answers? That aunt sounds super shady if you ask me πŸ˜’. Like, what's the point of even having a will if someone can just ignore it? The nephew needs to get a lawyer ASAP and sort this out! It's not right that he's being left high and dry like that.

And yeah, those fireplace lovers need to prioritize their neighbor's health over their own desires 🚫. I mean, I love a good fire too, but if it's hurting someone, you gotta make some sacrifices. Alternative heating sources are not hard to find, so let's get creative! 🌑️

Lastly, keeping secrets about plastic surgery is SO relatable πŸ˜‚... Dear Abby has no idea how hard it can be to deal with those age questions when you're still getting used to your new look! Just play dumb and have a good sense of humor, like they say: "Don't feed the trolls"... but in this case, just respond with something funny and move on! πŸ’β€β™€οΈ
 
I feel bad for this guy who's still waiting for his grandma's college fund. It's been like, 20 years now and it's just not fair to him or his siblings. I mean, can't they just sort out the will already? 🀯 My friend's family had a similar issue with their grandpa's estate, but we were lucky 'cause our parents handled everything smoothly. It's gotta be really tough for this guy and his aunt right now, all stressed out about it...
 
I mean, think about it, if your grandma made this huge promise and then didn't follow through on it, it's not just about the money, it's about the trust that was broken. It's like she took her word for it, but now 20 years later, the kid is still waiting to see if he'll ever get what's coming to him. And the aunt's not making things any easier by stonewalling him. 🀯

It's also interesting how we all have our own ways of coping with stress and tension in life, right? Like, one person might light a fireplace and create some warmth, while another person is like "nope, I need to figure out a new way to heat my place." πŸ˜‚ And then there are the ones who feel like they gotta keep it all under wraps, even if it's eating away at them.

It makes me wonder what we can do when our own expectations aren't met, and how that affects us on a deeper level. Like, is it just about the surface-level stuff or is there something more going on beneath? πŸ€”
 
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