I yearn for my mother’s beloved rice pudding — so will you

Rice pudding - a dessert so beloved, it transcends generations and borders. For me, Payesh, as we call it in Bengali, is more than just a sweet treat; it's an emotional connection to my heritage and family.

As the first day of January approaches, our household becomes a flurry of celebrations: birthdays, anniversaries, and the occasional festive gathering. And what's often at the center of these events? My mother's Payesh, of course. We Bengalis have a peculiar affinity for this creamy rice pudding, which has been a staple in our diet for centuries.

Interestingly, Payesh is known by many other names - Kheer, Khiri, Phirni, and more - with its origins dating back nearly 2,000 years to the Lord Jagannath Temple in Orissa. It was originally an offering to Hindu gods but has since become a symbol of prosperity and good fortune.

What I admire most about Payesh is its simplicity. My mother's recipe requires minimal ingredients: short-grained rice, whole milk, sugar, and cardamom pods. The process itself is almost meditative - watching the rice boil, feeling the aroma waft through the house, and waiting for that perfect consistency. When served, it's like a warm hug on a cold day.

Recently, I found myself craving Payesh in New York City. Standing in front of a counter filled with various flavors, my heart yearned for something familiar. It wasn't until then that I realized how much my mother's Payesh had become an integral part of me - not just a taste but a connection to home and family.

So, I decided it was time to learn the recipe myself. With some trepidation, I attempted to recreate my mother's Payesh. To my surprise, it turned out beautifully, with a creamy texture and subtle sweetness. It wasn't perfect, of course - nothing is - but it was deliciously close.

If you're looking for a taste of nostalgia this season, give Payesh a try. With its versatility and simplicity, it's an excellent option for anyone - lactose intolerant or not. And who knows? You might just find yourself drawn to the comforting warmth of this beloved dessert.
 
I'm so sick of new years resolutions... like "try payesh"... sounds like a promise to myself, that's all 💁‍♀️! But seriously, I had no idea Payesh was a thing outside of Bengali culture - my friend from Iran just told me she loves it and now I need to try it too 🤔. And omg the story about finding payesh in NYC is so relatable... like when you're so homesick that even thinking about food can bring back memories 😂. My mom's cooking should be on the list of things I can finally make without burning everything down... here's to new year, more attempt at paying attention 🤞!
 
I had rice pudding as a kid in school fairs and they'd always sell these tiny cups of creamy goodness for 50 cents... it was like a little taste explosion! Nowadays, I love that people are still making their own payesh at home - there's something so special about having a homemade dessert that's been passed down from your family. The fact that it's not super fancy but still brings back memories is what makes it so great...
 
I'm obsessed with this article about rice pudding 🤩! I mean, can you blame me? It's like they're talking directly to my heart ❤️. I've had Payesh (or Kheer, or whatever it's called in different parts of India) a million times at family gatherings and festivals, but never thought about how much it meant to the person sharing it 🤔. The writer's story is so relatable - they're like me, craving something familiar when I'm away from home 😊. And oh man, the part where they mention trying to recreate their mom's recipe? Same 💁‍♀️! I've been there too... or at least, in spirit 🍽️. Anyway, if you haven't tried Payesh yet, what are you even doing with your life? Go give it a shot and see why it's such an emotional connection for so many people 😋
 
You know what's wild? We spend all year trying to adult, and then suddenly January hits and we're all like "Hey, let's celebrate some birthdays and have a party for no reason!" 🎉 Like, I'm happy to see my grandma blow out candles, but can't we just stick to the New Year's resolutions that last until the 14th? 😂 And honestly, what's better than rice pudding to bring back from a trip to NYC? My taste buds (and my wallet) will thank me. But seriously, have you tried making Payesh from scratch? It's like meditation in a pot – except instead of finding inner peace, you're covered in flour and cardamom pods 😂.
 
payesh is like the ultimate comfort food lol... i mean who needs fancy holidays when you can just have a warm bowl of creamy rice pudding to lift your spirits 🍰😌 my fave part is how it's not just about the taste but the nostalgia and emotional connection, too. its like, who needs new year's resolutions when you can just have payesh every day? 😂 anyway, i'm definitely trying out this recipe myself now... fingers crossed i don't mess it up too badly 🤞
 
I'm so down for some Payesh vibes this new year 🍚❤️ I mean, can you think of a more comforting dessert that's also super easy to make? It's like my mom used to say, "Payesh is like a big hug in a bowl" 😊. And have you ever noticed how it's one of those desserts that's always associated with good times and family gatherings? Like, every time I see my cousins having their birthdays, there's always Payesh on the menu 🎉. I'm all about trying new flavors, but sometimes it's great to stick with what you know and love... like a warm, creamy bowl of Payesh 😌. And omg, have you tried making it at home? It's so meditative! Just watching the rice boil is like therapy for me 🍲💆‍♀️. Anyway, if you're feeling nostalgic or just want to try something new, I highly recommend giving Payesh a shot 💖. Trust me, your taste buds (and your family) will thank you 😊.
 
I'm like totally obsessed with desserts from different cultures rn 🍰😋. I mean, can you imagine having a sweet treat that's been around for 2k years? Mind blown! I've tried payesh before and it's so good! The thing I love about it is how simple the recipe is - just rice, milk, sugar, and cardamom pods. Like, who needs complicated desserts when you can have something as comforting as payesh?

I'm also loving the emotional connection people have with their families' recipes. My friends are always trying out new desserts for family gatherings and it's so cool to see how much love and care goes into making them.

And omg, I just learned that payesh is known by different names in other cultures - kheer, khiri, phirni... the list goes on! It's like this one dessert can bring people together from all over the world. Can you imagine having a global dessert exchange where everyone shares their favorite recipes? 🤩 That would be so lit!
 
Ugh 🤕 January is already here and I'm worried about the latest climate change report... apparently, 2024 was the hottest year on record 🌡️ and it's only going to get worse. The science is clear: we need to act fast or face the consequences. I know some people are looking for a pick-me-up dessert to start the new year, but have you seen the latest numbers on global food production? It's all downhill 🐖😩
 
omg i just had the craziest dream last night 🤯 i was eating payesh at my favorite restaurant in boston but then it started raining and everything turned into ice cream 🍦🌨️ idk why but it made me think about rice pudding as a comfort food lol maybe its cuz we grew up having it on special occasions and it brings back happy memories 🎉 i dont know how ur payesh recipe went but i wanna try making one now! what r the best ingredients 2 use?? 😂
 
I'm so over all the fuss about Payesh being an "emotional connection" thing... like it's some kind of mystical experience 🤣 . It's just rice and milk, fam! But I do get why it holds a special place in your heart - there's something so comforting about a warm, sweet treat after a long day. And I love how simple the recipe is, even if it does take some practice to get right 😊. I've been meaning to try making Payesh myself, but I'm a bit intimidated by all the different flavor options out there... maybe I'll just stick to the classic cardamom version for now 🤷‍♀️. Anyway, if you're feeling nostalgic, go give it a shot - it's hard to resist that creamy goodness 🍰!
 
omg I'm totally with u on payesh!!! 🤩 its like the ultimate comfort food for me too! I had a similar experience when I went back to my hometown in India after living abroad for a bit and my mom's cooking just took me straight back home 🍴👌. and yessss its so easy to make too, even if it does take some time to get it right 😊. i think thats what makes it so special, the process of making it is almost therapeutic, dont u think? 🥰
 
Wow 🤩 I've been trying out different recipes lately and I think this one is a must-try! The simplicity of Payesh is so endearing, it's like a warm hug in a bowl. And can you believe it has been around for 2000 years? That's insane! Interesting 😮
 
🍰 I'm obsessed with payesh right now! It's like, have you ever had that one comfort food that takes you straight back to your childhood and family traditions? That's what payesh is for me - it's more than just a sweet treat, it's an emotional connection to my heritage. And can we talk about how underrated it is? I mean, people know kheer and khiri, but payesh is like the unsung hero of Bengali desserts 🙌. Plus, it's so easy to make! My mom's recipe was a game-changer - who needs fancy ingredients or complicated techniques when you have simple short-grained rice and whole milk? 😊
 
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