Mary Earps extract: 'I felt sick and anxious. Then came the words I'd waited 12 months to hear'

The article is an excerpt from the book "Mary Earps: All In" by Mary Earps. It appears to be a memoir or autobiography, and the passage describes Earps' experiences as a goalkeeper for the England national team and her relationship with the team's manager, Sarina Wiegman.

Earps writes about how she was initially given the confidence to fulfill her potential as a goalkeeper, but later realized that she had been manipulated into staying on the team despite her doubts. She describes a conversation with Wiegman in which Earps told Wiegman that she couldn't do it anymore and that she didn't want to continue playing for the team.

Earps reflects on the experience and realizes that she had been approached in the same way repeatedly, delivering the same lessons. She comes to understand that her journey with Wiegman was ending, not because of any external factor, but because she had gained the confidence to say no to Wiegman's demands.

The passage ends with a note about the book and its availability for purchase at the Guardian Bookshop.
 
SO I JUST FINALLY GOT MY HANDS ON THIS BOOK BY MARY EARP'S AND IT'S BEEN A REAL Page-Turner!!! 💥 I mean, who knew being a goalkeeper for england could be so emotional?!? Earps' story is all about finding confidence and speaking up for yourself. it's like she was stuck in some kind of cycle where wiegman would say one thing but earps would hear another 🤯. anyway, i love how earps ended up gaining the courage to say no to wiegman's demands. that takes a lot of guts!! 👏
 
I'm really impressed by Mary Earps' courage in sharing her story! 🤩 It's not easy to admit when we've been taken advantage of or manipulated, but she does just that and takes ownership of her journey. I think it's so important for athletes (and people in general) to speak out about the pressure and expectations they face, especially when it comes to their mental health.

I love how Earps reflects on her experiences with Sarina Wiegman and realizes that she had the power to say no all along. It's such a powerful message of self-empowerment and I'm sure many people will be inspired by her story. 🙌
 
I'm thinking of how goalkeepers have it so tough 🤯... literally! They're under pressure all the time, making split-second decisions that can make or break a game. And then you add to that the mental aspect - their self-doubt and fear of failure. I can imagine it's super tough to be in Mary Earps' shoes, playing for the England national team... the stakes are so high! 🏆

Here's a little diagram I came up with:
```
+---------------+
| Goalkeeper Life |
+---------------+
|
| High Pressure
v
+---------------+---------------+
| Self-Doubt | Fear of Failure |
+---------------+---------------+
| |
| Gain Confidence|
v v
+---------------+---------------+
| Say No to Demands | End of Journey|
+---------------+---------------+
```
I wish more people could understand the mental side of sports, you know? It's not just about physical skill, but also about confidence and mental toughness. Mary Earps is an inspiration for many, I'm sure! 💪
 
I'm low-key obsessed with this Mary Earps memoir, it's like, so relatable 🤩! I mean, who hasn't felt like they're just going through the motions in their job or relationship? Earps' story is all about finding your voice and standing up for yourself. It's crazy how often we settle for someone else's idea of what's best for us, right? And it's amazing that she was able to break free from Wiegman's management style and find her own confidence. I'm definitely adding this book to my reading list ASAP! 💪
 
😅 I just read this excerpt from Mary Earps' memoir and I'm like "girl, same!" You know when you're trying to figure out your own career or life path but someone keeps pushing you to do what they think is best for you? 🤷‍♀️ It sounds so familiar. And I love how she's speaking her truth now and saying that it was time for her to move on. 💁‍♀️ I'm definitely looking forward to reading the whole book, hope it's a great read! 👍
 
🤔 I'm intrigued by Mary Earps' story. It's crazy how we can be pushed into roles or situations that aren't really right for us, even if we're talented or capable. It sounds like Wiegman was a master manipulator, but also kind of a mentor? The fact that Earps eventually found the confidence to walk away shows that she was growing and learning as a person, not just a footballer 🏀💪. I wonder how many people can relate to feeling trapped in a situation they don't want to be in. Maybe we can all learn from Earps' journey?
 
I don't buy it 🤔. If Earps is really saying that Wiegman was manipulating her into staying on the team, then why would she be so open about it in a memoir? Wouldn't it be a pretty big risk to share something like that publicly? Plus, I'm curious where exactly this conversation with Wiegman took place... was it recorded or documented somewhere? Can we trust that Earps isn't just spinning this story to get attention? 🤷‍♀️
 
I'm still trying to wrap my head around this whole goalkeeping thing 🤯... I mean, how did we even agree on so many of those 90s soccer rules? Anyway, what's up with these modern goalies getting all sorts of support and resources to help them succeed? It feels like a total game-changer 💪. I remember when Claire Smith was the first female goalkeeper to play in the World Cup 🌎... it was like, whoa! What's next for women's soccer?
 
I feel like I've been there too 🤯. You know when you're so dedicated to something that you forget who's really calling the shots? It's easy to get caught up in the excitement of being part of a team, but sometimes you gotta listen to your own voice and trust yourself. I remember when my kids were young and I used to overcommit myself as a parent - always putting others' needs before mine 🤦‍♀️. But then I realized that if I wanted to be present for them, I had to take care of myself first too. It's the same with any big decision in life. You gotta know when to speak up and say no if it's not right for you 💪. It's scary, but ultimately liberating 🌞.
 
🤔 just finished reading about Mary Earps' experiences as an England national team goalkeeper 🏒️ and I'm left thinking... how many of us have felt like we're being 'held back' by our coaches or managers, only to realize that it was all a means to an end - building our confidence. It's wild to think that Earps had been in those same conversations with Sarina Wiegman multiple times 😂. I mean, can you imagine saying no to someone who's basically telling you what you're capable of? 🙄 But Earps' journey shows us that having the courage to speak up and say no can be a game-changer 💪.
 
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