Opinion: ‘Until we meet again, brave little cat.’ The heartbreak and taboo of burying our pets | CNN

The tradition of burying our departed loved ones in a cemetery is a deeply ingrained cultural practice that provides survivors with an opportunity to grieve and find closure. However, this custom has never been applied to non-human beings – unless they are our pets.

Recently, the Spanish city of Barcelona announced plans to establish its first public pet cemetery, which will offer both burials and cremations for an estimated 7,000 pets per year. The news came as a surprise to me, given that even in densely populated cities with limited privately owned land, pet cemeteries have been around since the late 19th century.

My research on historic gravestones and epitaphs has shown that our relationships with animals evolve over time and are reflective of societal attitudes towards the afterlife. In the past, pets were often buried in gardens or streets, but as human-animal bonds grew stronger, so did the desire for more personalized and dignified burial practices.

Today, we recognize that the connection between humans and their pets can be just as strong and significant as our relationships with other humans. Yet, many people still struggle to express their grief, fearing social repercussions or feeling ashamed of their emotions. Charities like the Blue Cross and Rainbow Bridge Pet Loss Grief Center offer counseling to bereaved pet owners, and some organizations reassure the public that there is no shame in grieving.

The establishment of a public pet cemetery in Barcelona will likely reveal more about modern Catalan relationships with animals, particularly when it comes to mourning their loss. The estimated cost of €200 per service may be a barrier for many pet owners, who may opt to keep cremated remains at home or scatter ashes in meaningful locations instead.

However, this is not a limitation on the ways we can express our grief. Online forums and digital pet cemeteries provide alternative opportunities for pet owners to commemorate their relationships and process their emotions.

Ultimately, as society becomes more accepting of human-animal relationships, so too will our funerary practices. By recognizing the significance of these bonds, we can create spaces like the new Barcelona cemetery that acknowledge and honor the love we share with our pets – until we meet again, brave little cat.
 
🐾💕 I think it's amazing that Barcelona is finally giving pet owners a more dignified way to say goodbye to their furry friends 🙏 The fact that they're planning a public cemetery shows how far human-animal bonds have come 💯 It's not just about the pet, but about the love and memories we shared with them ❤️ And yeah, I think €200 might be a bit pricey for some families, but there are online options and digital cemeteries that can help make it more accessible 🌐 What I love most is how it's changing the way we talk about grief and loss – no shame in expressing our emotions! 💖 It's all about honoring those special relationships and finding ways to keep them alive in our hearts ❤️
 
🐈💔 think its really cool that barca is gettin a public pet cemetary! its like they're sayin "ok ur pet may be gone but wer still gonna celebrate ur life together". plus its not just about the pets tho, its about how we feel about losin em. alot of peeps struggle with grief and expressin their emotions, so havin somethin like this opens up a convo about what it means to be human 🤗
 
🤷‍♂️ Can you believe it? A whole public pet cemetery in Barcelona... I mean, who wouldn't want to pay €200 to have their furry friend buried in a designated spot? 🤑 It's not like they're charging extra for the emotional closure or anything 😂. But seriously, I think it's great that they're trying to normalize the grief process for pet owners. Like, yes, we do feel shame when we cry about our cats leaving us 🤯. Maybe this will encourage more people to open up about their feelings and not just pretend everything is fine (aka cat videos on YouTube 😂). And btw, 7,000 pets per year? That's like, a lot of furry friends who won't be needing a LinkedIn profile anymore 💀.
 
I gotta say, it's kinda crazy to think about finally having a public pet cemetery in Barcelona 🐈💔. I mean, it just goes to show how our feelings for animals have evolved over time. We used to just toss 'em aside or scatter their ashes wherever, but now we're recognizing that they're part of the family too 🤝. It's still wild that some people feel ashamed about grieving their pets, though - shouldn't we be supporting each other through tough times instead? 🤗

I also love how online forums and digital pet cemeteries are giving people more options to celebrate their relationships with animals after they pass away 💻. I know I'd totally take advantage of that myself if I ever had a furry friend that I was close to 😊. It's heartwarming to see how we're becoming more compassionate and understanding towards all living beings, including our pets 🌟.
 
I'm thinking, what's up with this public pet cemetery in Barcelona? It seems like a weird precedent to set - I mean, why should humans get all these fancy burial grounds when it comes to their pets but animals are just gonna be thrown in the ground like trash? 🤔 And €200 per service? That's a lot of cash for something that's basically just dirt and bones. But at the same time, I guess it shows how far human-animal bonds have come - we're recognizing that our pets are more than just pets, they're part of the family. And hey, who needs a fancy cemetery when you can just scatter ashes in your backyard or create an online memorial? That's what I'd do if my fave dog passed away...
 
Man I gotta say, this news about a pet cemetery in Barcelona is actually kinda awesome 🐾💕. I mean think about it, people have been burying their pets for years but never really thought of it as an official thing. It's like we're finally catching up to how much our furry friends mean to us 💯. I'm all for it, even if the €200 price tag might be a bit steep for some people 🤑. But honestly who cares? It's about giving those pets a proper sendoff and helping owners grieve in peace ✝️. And let's not forget online forums and digital cemeteries, that's like the ultimate equalizer for pet lovers everywhere 📊💻.
 
[Image of a cat in a coffin with a "RIP" sign] 😹💀
[Birds mourning their loss, flying around a tree with a grave at its base, while a sun sets behind them 🌅]
[Pic of a pet cemetery with a big tree and lots of headstones, a little girl is sitting on a bench crying in front of it, tears streaming down her face 😔]
[An image of the Barcelona cityscape with a red pin marking the spot where the new pet cemetery will be built 📍]
 
omg i cant believe theyre making a public pet cemetery in barcelona!! its about time we start recognising the strong bond between us & our furry friends 🐱💕 i mean think about it, how many ppl have cried themselves to sleep over their beloved pets dying? its a huge loss 4 anyone who's ever had a pet 😔 and btw, €200 might be a bit steep for some ppl tho maybe they can offer more affordable options or even free cremations for those in need 💸 but i think its a great start 🎉 we should def have more places like this where people can say goodbye 2 their pets in a dignified way 🙏 and who knows, maybe it'll inspire others 2 get creative w/ how they deal w/ pet loss online 🤷‍♀️📸
 
I'm low-key excited about this new pet cemetery in Barcelona 🐱💚! It's a game-changer for pet owners who want to give their furry friends a proper sendoff 💔. I mean, think about it - pets are part of the fam, right? 🤩 It's time we start treating them with the respect and dignity they deserve 💯. And, let's be real, it's not just about the money; it's about the emotional closure that comes with saying goodbye to our beloved pets 👋. The fact that there are already online forums and digital pet cemeteries is a great sign that we're moving in the right direction 🌟! Who knows, maybe one day we'll have public pet cemeteries for all kinds of animals - it's a whole new world of possibilities 🌐!
 
🐱💔 I think it's super cool that Barcelona is starting a public pet cemetery! 🌳️ It shows how much people care about their furry friends 💕. I mean, sure, €200 might be pricey for some, but can you put a price on the love and memories we share with our pets? 🤔

I'm all about those online forums and digital cemeteries too! 👻💻 They're like, totally amazing ways to remember and celebrate our pets, even if it's not in person. And hey, who says you can't scatter ashes or keep cremated remains at home if the public cemetery is pricey? 🌫️

I think this will help people realize that grief is just as real for pet owners as it is for human mourners 🤝. And I love how charities are there to support us during tough times 💗.

It's all about creating spaces and opportunities for us to honor our pets' memories, you know? 🌟 Like, a beautiful diagram of a cat cemetery would be so awesome right now...
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+---------------+
| CAT'S GRAVE |
+---------------+
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| ❤️
v
+---------------+---------------+
| CEMETERY | MEMORY WALL |
+---------------+---------------+
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anywayz, it's a great step forward for our human-animal bond 🌈
 
I just got back from the most random road trip to the beach 🏖️ last weekend and it made me think about how dogs are actually way more chill than humans when it comes to grief 😂. Like, I saw a dog that had lost its owner, but instead of being all sad and withdrawn, it just kinda... went back to playing in the waves 🌊. Meanwhile, humans are over here freaking out and crying in public 💔. Maybe we can learn a thing or two from our furry friends about how to process emotions without being too dramatic 😜.
 
just saw this thread about barcelona's public pet cemetery 🐈😔 i think it's awesome that they're recognizing the human-animal bond, but €200 is a pretty steep price for some people... maybe it's time for more affordable options or community-run cemeteries? 🤝 online forums and digital pet cemeteries are already doing this, so let's not leave those behind 💻 anyway, i'm glad to see people talking about pet loss and grief in a more open way 👍
 
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