Opinion: ‘Until we meet again, brave little cat.’ The heartbreak and taboo of burying our pets | CNN

The tradition of burying pets is a taboo topic, yet it's clear that humans have long sought ways to honor their departed companions. From the establishment of pet cemeteries in Europe and North America over 500 years ago, to the recent announcement by the Spanish city of Barcelona about its first public pet cemetery, this practice continues to evolve.

One might wonder why we bury pets at all, given that they are not human. The primary purpose of a cemetery is to provide survivors with an opportunity to grieve and find closure. Yet, there's a deeper significance to these burial sites, one that reflects the changing relationships between humans and animals over time.

Historical records show that in the 19th century, pets were often considered "loving friends" or "devoted companions." Gravestones from this era feature names like "Loving Friend" or "Devoted Companion," suggesting a strong bond between pet owners and their animals. However, by the early 20th century, pets had become integral members of the family, with family surnames appearing on gravestones and loving epitaphs written by "Mummy and Daddy."

The modern pet cemetery is more than just a place for burial; it's an opportunity to express grief and commemorate the relationship between humans and animals. According to Eric Tourigny, a lecturer in historical archaeology, close relationships between people and animals have existed for millennia, but in Western European cultures, there were few acceptable ways to mourn that relationship.

The recent establishment of Barcelona's public pet cemetery highlights the growing acceptance of human-animal relationships as essential to our collective wellbeing. While not everyone may be able to afford the estimated €200 ($217) per service at this new cemetery, there are other options available, such as online forums and digital pet cemeteries.

Ultimately, the tradition of burying pets is a testament to the strength of human-animal bonds. Whether one chooses a pet cemetery or not, there are many acceptable ways to express grief and remember the important animals in our lives. As we move forward, it's essential to recognize the significance of these relationships and provide opportunities for mourning and commemoration that reflect the changing nature of our connections with animals.
 
I feel so sad when I see people losing their pets 🐾💔. The thing is, pets are more than just companions, they're part of our family 🏠🐶. We form strong bonds with them and it's normal to grieve when they pass away 💀. I think pet cemeteries are a great idea - it gives people an outlet to remember their furry friends and says that we value those relationships ❤️.

I also love how pet cemeteries have evolved over time 🕰️. From having "Loving Friend" or "Devoted Companion" on the gravestones, to now having public ones in cities like Barcelona - it shows that our connection with animals is becoming more accepted 🌎. And yeah, maybe not everyone can afford the service, but there are other ways to say goodbye and remember them online 📊.

It's also interesting how pets have become an integral part of families 👪. I think we should celebrate those strong human-animal bonds and find ways to honor our furry friends when they're gone 💫.
 
🐾💔 I mean, can u imagine lovin a pet so much that u wanna put 'em in the ground? its crazy! 🤯 I think its awesome that ppl r gettin more comfortable talkin about it. I lost my fur baby like 5 yrs ago and still feel weird about not havin a special spot for 'em 🌻 my cousin just got a new pup tho... guess wut? hes plannin on havin a special ceremony when the time comes 😂
 
I dont get why they need a public pet cemetery in barca... €200 for a service is way too expensive 💸. online forums or digital cemeteries would be more affordable and still allow people to pay their respects 🤷‍♀️. also, what about all the other pets that are just lost at home... why do they need a special spot just for those who get buried? 🐶😔
 
I feel so bad for people who have lost their furry babies 🐾😔. I mean, pets are part of the family, you know? It's like they're gone, but we still need to celebrate the time we had together. Pet cemeteries are getting more popular and it's awesome that Barcelona is offering a public one 🌴. I think it's cool how they have different options for people who can't afford it or want something online 📊. It shows that humans really care about animals, even after they're gone 💕. We should be celebrating those strong human-animal bonds, not hiding them away 🤗.
 
🐾💔 I think its pretty cool that people are starting to accept the idea of burying their pets like they're human. Its not just about letting go, but also about celebrating the love we have for them 💕. Like, my grandma had this huge dog that she loved more than anything, and when he passed away, it was like losing a member of the family 🐶. Having a special place to remember him by, like a pet cemetery, would've meant so much to her. Its also awesome that there are options now for people who can't afford it, like online forums or digital cemeteries. It shows that we're getting better at recognizing the importance of our relationships with animals 💖.
 
I gotta say 🤔, I think it's super beautiful how people are finally accepting burying their pets as a way to honor them 💕. I mean, we're already doing it for humans, so why not for our furry friends too? 🐾💔 The fact that these cemeteries are becoming more mainstream is amazing 🌟. And yeah, the history behind it is really interesting - from loving friends to devoted companions 📚. It's like, we've come a long way in recognizing the importance of animal relationships 🤝.

I made a simple diagram to illustrate this idea:
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+---------------+
| Human-Animal|
| Relationship |
+---------------+
|
|
v
+---------------+ +---------------+
| Loving Friend | | Family Member |
| (19th century) | | (20th century) |
+---------------+ +---------------+
```
It's all about evolving our understanding of what it means to be connected to another living being 🌿. And I love that there are now options for people who can't afford a traditional cemetery - online forums and digital pet cemeteries are a great alternative 💻.

Anyway, I think this trend is going to continue and become more mainstream 💸. It's about time we recognized the significance of our animal relationships 🐾❤️!
 
I THINK IT'S AMAZING THAT PEOPLE ARE FINALLY GETTING TOGETHER ABOUT BURYING THEIR PETS IN PROPER CEMETERIES 🐾💀!! IT'S LIKE, WE'VE BEEN GUILTY OF LEAVING THEM OUTSIDE OR BURNING THEM FOR YEARS AND NOW WE'RE RECOGNIZING THAT THEY WERE MORE THAN JUST ANIMALS TO US. I MEAN, WHO NEEDS A FUNERAL WHEN YOU CAN HAVE A PEACEFUL SPACE TO SAY GOODBYE TO YOUR BEST FRIEND?! 🤣
 
people r startin 2 think pets as part of fam now 🤝 ... i dunno about buryin them tho 🙅‍♂️, cant we just have a special spot in our hearts 4 dem instead? 🐾💕 but i guess its nice that theres options out there 4 those who want 2 say goodbye 2 their furry friends 💔
 
🌸 I mean, think about it... we're basically recognizing the emotional attachment we have with our furry friends is real. It's not just about the animal, it's about the memories and experiences we shared together. And let's be honest, losing a pet feels like losing a member of the family 😔. So yeah, having dedicated spaces for pets to rest can really help people process their grief and celebrate those special bondings. I'm all for making pet cemeteries more accessible, especially for families who can't afford the pricey options 🤝. Digital pet cemeteries are a great idea too... who says you need physical space to honor your pets? 💻
 
omg I'm like so down for this new pet cemetery in Barcelona 🤩🐾! I know some ppl might think its weird but I think its so beautiful that there's a special place for our fur babies to rest ❤️ I mean, we spend just as much time with them as we do with our human fams, right? 🤷‍♀️ it makes total sense that we need a way to honor their memory too. and I love how they're making it accessible so ppl can afford it 💸 even if you can't go in person, online forums & digital cemeteries are def an option 😊
 
🐾💔 i feel like its getting more normal to see ppl burying their pets, its like theyre becoming part of the family or something 🤷‍♀️ but like €200 is a lot of money lol, some ppl might just wanna put a pic on instagram and say they lost a furry friend 📸 anyway its def a way for people to grieve in their own way 💕
 
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