Opinion: ‘Until we meet again, brave little cat.’ The heartbreak and taboo of burying our pets | CNN

The burial of pets has long been a taboo subject in human culture. While we have come to accept the practice of burying our deceased loved ones in cemeteries, the concept of giving our beloved pets similar respect and closure is often overlooked.

Eric Tourigny, a lecturer in historical archaeology at Newcastle University, sheds light on this topic. He believes that the burial of pets reflects not just a practical necessity but also an emotional one – demonstrating the strength of human-animal bonds.

In Europe and North America, public pet cemeteries have existed for over 100 years, providing a space for families to say goodbye to their pets in a dignified manner. However, until recently, these facilities were rare and mostly served private clients. The announcement by Barcelona that it will establish its first public pet cemetery has sparked widespread interest and raised questions about the changing attitudes towards human-animal relationships.

Tourigny's research on historic gravestones and epitaphs reveals a fascinating story of how societal norms have evolved over time. In the 19th century, pets were considered "loving friends" or "devoted companions," with many owners burying them in family plots or personal spaces. By the early 20th century, however, pets had become integral members of families, with epitaphs often referencing reunions and loving farewells.

Fast-forward to today, and we see a striking similarity between modern pet cemeteries and those from over a century ago – a testament to the enduring power of human-animal bonds. The connection that people feel towards their pets can be just as strong as their relationships with other humans, yet many still struggle to express their grief openly.

Charities like the Blue Cross and Rainbow Bridge Pet Loss Grief Center now offer counseling services for bereaved pet owners in the UK, recognizing the importance of acknowledging and processing human-animal emotions. While the financial accessibility of public pet cemeteries is a concern, alternative options such as online forums, digital pet cemeteries, and home burials provide more affordable alternatives.

Ultimately, the burial of pets has come to represent not just an emotional closure but also a way to honor our relationships with beloved animals. As societal attitudes continue to shift, so too will the ways in which we mourn and remember our furry friends – offering hope that future generations will cherish these bonds even stronger.
 
its about time we start treating our pets like family lol 🐾🙏 i mean think about it, our dogs and cats are with us for like 10-15 years or more, thats a whole lotta love and commitment! its not just about burying them in the backyard anymore, we need to acknowledge the emotional toll of losing them. those public pet cemeteries are a game changer 🌳💕 i wish they were more affordable tho, but at least theres options like online forums and digital cemeteries for those who cant afford it. maybe its time we start talking about pets as part of our families instead of just considering them as pets 🤗
 
I'm loving this trend of pet cemeteries! It's like, totally normal now for people to be all emotional about saying goodbye to their pets 🐾💔. I mean, we're already having public burials for humans, so why not our furry friends too? 🤷‍♀️ It's beautiful how these places are popping up and providing a space for families to grieve in peace.

And can you believe Barcelona is starting its own public pet cemetery?! That's amazing 💥. I've got some friends who are already looking into it, and they're all super excited to have a place to bury their beloved pets. It just goes to show that our love for animals is getting more serious and accepted by society.

I'm also loving the fact that charities are now offering counseling services for pet loss grievers 🤝. We need to talk about these feelings, you know? Losing a pet is like losing a member of the family, and it's okay to feel sad and overwhelmed. The Blue Cross and Rainbow Bridge Pet Loss Grief Center are doing some amazing work here.

Anyway, I'm all for more public pet cemeteries popping up! It's time we gave our furry friends the respect they deserve 🌼💕.
 
omg this is like totally amazing i never thought about how we should be honoring our pets in a more official way 🐾💕 i mean think about it, they're part of the fam just like us, and losing them can feel so painful its crazy that we didn't have these options back in the day, but now im so glad to see people advocating for better support and recognition for pet loss grief centers are doing such great work and online forums and digital cemeteries are awesome too for those who cant afford a traditional one 🤗💕
 
🐾💔 I mean, it's about time we give our pets the respect they deserve! I remember when I was a kid, my family would have little picnics at our backyard to say goodbye to our beloved golden retriever when he passed away... it was so emotional, but also super comforting. Now, having public pet cemeteries is like a full circle moment – we're finally acknowledging the depth of our human-animal bonds 💕.

I'm all for this new initiative in Barcelona, though I do wonder if they'll make it affordable for everyone 🤑. I've seen those online forums and digital pet cemeteries that offer an alternative, but sometimes you just wanna be surrounded by nature and pay your respects the old-fashioned way 🌳💐.

It's cool to see how societal norms have shifted over time – from loving friends to integral family members... it just goes to show how much our pets mean to us 😊. And I love that charities are stepping in to provide counseling services for pet owners who need help processing their grief 👍.
 
I think its kinda weird how we're only now starting to take pet burial seriously... like what's changed? Our feelings towards them haven't 🤔. I mean, it's been around for ages in some parts of the world, but here it's still super rare and mostly private. Its crazy how attitudes can change over time, though... in the 19th century they were literally buried with their owners like family members 💀. Its cool that charities are stepping in to support pet loss now too 🐾💕.
 
🐶💔 I totally get why people want their pets buried with respect - it's like saying goodbye to a member of the family 🤗. My aunt lost her dog, and it was so sad to see her cry, but she ended up keeping a memory box for his favorite toys and stuff, which is still hard to look at, even years later 😔. But I guess that's just how strong our bond with animals can be 💕...
 
I think its super interesting how this topic is related to how we're treating human life nowadays 🤔. I mean, we have a whole society built around respecting the dead, but pets are still just treated like they're disposable? Like, what's the point of even having pet cemeteries if we're not gonna recognize the emotional investment people have in their pets? It's crazy how our attitudes towards human relationships with animals are shifting, and I think its time for us to redefine what it means to care for our furry friends 💔. We should be looking at this as an opportunity to reevaluate our own values around life and death, and I think that's a conversation worth having 🗣️.
 
this is such a beautiful thing 🌸, i mean think about it, pets are like part of the fam, they've got their own personalities, quirks & memories that make us laugh or cry... and yet when they pass away we still feel this huge void, like losing a loved one. public pet cemeteries are like a game-changer 🤝, giving families a safe space to say goodbye & celebrate the time they had together. it's all about respect & closure, you know?
 
The more I think about it, the more I'm convinced that public pet cemeteries are a no-brainer 🤔. I mean, think about it, we spend thousands on fancy cars and expensive vacations for our human loved ones, but when it comes to burying our pets, it's like they're an afterthought 💸. Like, what's the difference between throwing some cash at a pet cemetery and, say, a sentimental piece of jewelry that holds no real value?

And don't even get me started on how weird it is that we're only just now starting to acknowledge the emotional significance of our relationships with pets 🤷‍♂️. I mean, come on, people have been burying their pets for centuries, and yet we've only recently recognized it as a legitimate way to cope with loss. It's like we're finally catching up on some lost time ⏰.

But in all seriousness, having public pet cemeteries could really help people process their grief in a healthy way 💕. And let's be real, who doesn't want to visit a pretty grave and say their final goodbyes to a beloved furry friend 🌼?
 
I think it's high time we gave pets the respect they deserve 🐾💔. I mean, we're always talking about grief and loss when it comes to humans, but when it comes to our poor fur babies, it's like we don't know how to handle their passing 😔. It's so sweet that Barcelona is starting a public pet cemetery - maybe it'll inspire other cities to do the same 🌟. I've lost count of how many times my friends and I have talked about online forums or digital cemeteries for pets - it's like, why not?! We need more options for people who can't afford a traditional burial, you know? 💸 Anyway, I think it's amazing that charities are starting to offer counseling services for pet owners... we should all be supporting each other in our loss 🐾❤️.
 
I'm so down on public pet cemeteries 🙅‍♂️. Like, think about it, if everyone's just going to go out and bury their dead pets in a crowded space like some kind of mass funeral... doesn't that kinda defeat the purpose of having your own private plot? And what's next, gonna be public gardens for the living too? 🤯 I mean, I get it, humans and animals are super close, but can't we just keep things a little more low-key? Like, let people grieve in peace without all the drama... or should I say, "paws" 👀
 
I mean, can you believe it? Public pet cemeteries are finally becoming a thing! 🤣 I've seen those private ones where you pay to bury your cat or dog, but this is like, legit public spaces now? It's about time, if you ask me. My grandma used to have a golden retriever that she loved more than life itself. When that pup passed away, it was like losing a member of the family. I remember how sad everyone got when they'd talk about Max... it's clear we've come a long way in accepting pet loss as part of the grieving process 🐾💔.
 
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