Opinion: ‘Until we meet again, brave little cat.’ The heartbreak and taboo of burying our pets | CNN

The burial of our pets is an intimate cultural practice that reflects changing human-animal relationships over time. In the past, burying pets was a taboo topic, but as attitudes towards animals have evolved, so too has the way we treat their remains.

Historically, people disposed of their dead pets in rivers or sold them for meat and skin. However, with advancements in hygiene and societal acceptance of human-animal bonds, pet cemeteries began to emerge. Britain's first public pet cemetery appeared in London's Hyde Park in 1881, followed by New York's Hartsdale pet cemetery in 1896.

Today, cities like Barcelona are investing in the establishment of public pet cemeteries, offering burials and cremations for an estimated 7,000 pets per year. This development highlights a changing attitude towards human-animal relationships and the importance of grieving for animals.

The burial of pets shares striking similarities with modern and historic mourning practices. The connection between someone and their pet can be just as strong and significant as other human relationships, yet individuals struggle to express their pain publicly due to social repercussions. Charities like the RSPCA reassures the public that there should be no shame in grieving for animals.

The introduction of co-burial facilities for cremated humans and animals has further blurred the lines between traditional mourning practices. While pet cemeteries are not financially accessible to all, online forums and digital pet cemeteries provide alternative ways for pet owners to commemorate their relationships and express grief.

In Barcelona's new cemetery, epitaphs will reveal about modern Catalan relationships with animals, reflecting an evolving understanding of human-animal bonds. Whether choosing a pet cemetery or opting for cremation, there are many acceptable ways to express grief and remember the important animals in one's life.
 
OMG I just got back from the most random vacation to Hawaii 🌴🏖️ and I started thinking about this whole human-animal thing... it got me thinking that we're so attached to our pets, they become like family members or something? Like, have you ever seen a dog's grave in person? It's so beautiful 😊... anyway back to this pet cemetery thing, I don't know if I'd want my pup buried with me when I'm old and gone 🤔... but at the same time it's nice that people are finding ways to honor their pets after they pass on 💕... and isn't it wild that we've come so far from just throwing our dead animals in rivers or selling them for meat? 🌊🐮
 
🤔 the thing is, it feels like we're finally getting comfortable enough with talking about our feelings towards animals. I mean, who would've thought 150 yrs ago that we'd be building fancy cemeteries just for them? 🐾💀 the lines between humans and animals are blurring, which can be both beautiful and unsettling.
 
I'm so weirded out that people used to just dump their pets in rivers or sell them 🤯💀... like, how can you even do that?! Anyway, I think it's really cool that pet cemeteries are becoming more common now 🌼🐾. It shows that people are finally accepting of the bond we have with our fur babies 💕. But what's up with some places being more expensive than others? Like, shouldn't everyone be able to say goodbye to their pets in a beautiful spot? 🤔💸 Also, I'm curious about these online forums and digital pet cemeteries... are they really as good as the real deal or just a way for people to cope with their loss online? 🤷‍♀️📚
 
Ugh 🤕, just heard about Barcelona setting up more pet cemeteries... like, aren't we already burying our trash? 🚮💀 Still, I guess it's good that they're normalizing the idea of grieving for pets... have you seen those online forums where people are sharing eulogies for their cats and stuff? 😩 It's actually kinda sad 🤷‍♂️. On the other hand, at least now pet owners don't have to resort to selling their dead pets on the black market or throwing them in the river 🌊. That's progress, I guess 👀.
 
I mean, what's next? We're gonna start having funerals for our old shoes and complaining about the price of bread 🤣. But seriously, it's kinda cool that we've come a long way from just throwing pets in rivers or selling them for food. I guess it's a good thing we've evolved to care more about those little furballs...or at least, some people have 😏. I can see why pet cemeteries are becoming more popular - who doesn't want to pay extra to give their pup a fancy sendoff? And yeah, online forums and digital pet cemeteries are a great alternative for those on a budget...or just don't wanna deal with the drama of in-person funerals 🙃.
 
I'm so glad they're finally giving pets the respect they deserve 🐾💕. It's crazy how far we've come since burying them in rivers or selling their remains. Now, pet cemeteries are becoming a thing, and I think it's amazing! 🌳 I mean, who says you can't grieve for your furry friends like you would with human family members? 😔 It's all about respecting those strong bonds we form with our pets.

And have you seen those online forums where pet owners share their stories and memories of their beloved pets? ❤️ It's so beautiful. I think it's high time we acknowledged that the loss of a pet is just as significant as any other loss in our lives. 🤗 The fact that charities like RSPCA are promoting this change of heart is awesome! 💯
 
🐾💔 I think it's beautiful that we're finally accepting it as normal to grieve when our furry friends pass away 🌹 The way we treat their remains is really showing how much they meant to us 💕 And yeah, online pet cemeteries are a great option for those who can't afford the physical ones 📊 It's amazing how it's becoming more acceptable to acknowledge the pain of losing our pets 😔
 
omg i feel like we r gettin close 2 acceptin pets as part of our fam lol its wild thinkin bout how far weve come from literally buryin them alive 🙅‍♀️😂 nowadays ppl r all about pet cemeteries & cremations & im lowkey proud of it tbh my own doggy passed away last yr & i was like "where can i put this poor guy?" 🐾💔 then i stumbled upon this one online pet cemetery & it was like a weight lifted off me, u know? now i get to visit his spot whenever i wanna reminisce about good times 💕🌻
 
I dont get it 🤔... people spend thousands on fancy cars and houses but a plot to bury their beloved pets is just "okay" 😐? I mean what about all those fancy pet food brands and designer collars? Where did that money come from? It just seems like we're trying to compensate for our own mortality by lavishing attention (and cash) on our furry friends 🤑.
 
🐾💕 I'm like super excited about this new pet cemetery thingy in Barcelona! 🌟 I mean, it's so cool that cities are finally recognizing how much we love our furry friends (and scaly ones too 🐍) and wanting to give us a proper way to say goodbye. It's like, we're living in a time where humans can get married, have kids, and even adopt each other... but pets? We still need a special spot to lay them to rest? 😂 Makes total sense to me! The fact that they're investing in co-burial facilities for humans and animals is also super progressive (and a bit eerie 🤯) - I mean who says we can't be friends with our four-legged pals until the end? 💀 What I love about this trend is it shows us that pets are more than just companions, they're like family members... and we should be allowed to grieve for them in peace 🌹
 
"Those who do not mourn do not live." 💔🐾

It's amazing how far we've come in accepting the idea of burying our pets, and it just goes to show that humans have an incredible capacity for love and connection with animals 🙌.

I think it's really cool that cities like Barcelona are investing in public pet cemeteries - it's a beautiful way to honor our furry friends who bring so much joy to our lives 💕.

It's also interesting to see how the lines between human and animal grief have become more blurred, with co-burial facilities becoming more mainstream 🌱.
 
idk why ppl havent thought of dis b4, but its really cool dat cities r startin 2 invest in public pet cemeteries!! 🤯 like, thinkin bout it, pets r part of our familes too, n we should be able 2 mourn 2m. its a shame ppl still dont get it, but hey at least theres places lik barcelona doin it rite. cremation or burial, doesnt matter, its all about showin love & respect 4 our furry friends 💕
 
I think its awesome how people are starting to normalize burying their pets like its just another part of the grieving process 😊. Its crazy to think about how just a century ago ppl used to just toss their dead pets in rivers or sell 'em for food. Like, what kind of person does that? 🤢 Anyway, im glad thats changing now and we have these amazing pet cemeteries popping up all over the place. I mean, i know its still not super common, but its a great way to honor our furry friends and acknowledge how much they mean to us ❤️. And yeah, cremation options are also getting better and more accessible, so ppl can choose what works best for them 🙏. Its all about respecting the bond between humans and animals, you know? 🐾💕
 
I mean, think about it... is this a case of people wanting more control over their own lives, even when it comes to something as personal as burying their pets? 🤔 I'm not saying it's all about individual freedom, but rather how we're redefining what's acceptable in our society. Like, we used to think that animals were just commodities, you know? But now, with pet cemeteries popping up everywhere, it shows we've grown more empathetic towards them.

And I'm also curious... is this a reflection of our urbanization and how people are moving away from traditional values? I mean, Barcelona's doing this now, but what about other cities? Are they catching on too? And what does this say about our relationship with death itself? 🧡
 
I feel like we're getting to a point where it's normal to treat our pets as part of the family 💕. I mean, think about how far pet cemeteries have come - from being seen as taboo to having their own communities now 🌳. It's interesting that they're even creating epitaphs for the Barcelona cemetery, highlighting how our relationships with animals are changing 🤔. And honestly, why should we feel like there's something wrong with grieving for an animal? They're our companions, after all 🐾💔. It's awesome that there are options available now, whether it's a pet cemetery or online memorial, so people can express their feelings and remember their loved ones in a way that feels right for them 💗.
 
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