The man who froze his wife and got a new girlfriend: a stranger, sadder tale than I expected | Imogen West-Knights

A Chinese man's cryogenically frozen wife and his new girlfriend have sparked outrage on social media. Gui Junmin, the widower, froze his late wife Zhan Wenlian after she died of lung cancer in 2017. The procedure was paid for by a science research institute in Jinan, east China, which agreed to preserve her body for 30 years.

According to reports, Zhan herself consented to the process before passing away. However, what has left many people questioning Gui's motives is that he began dating again in 2020 and now has a new partner, Wang Chunxia. The question on everyone's mind is: was this fair to either woman?

One can only imagine how confusing it must be for Zhan's frozen body, slowly thawing out, to discover her husband had found love again while she was still "on ice." The complexity of the situation raises several social and ethical questions.

Gui initially described his new relationship with Wang as "utilitarian," suggesting that their bond was purely for practical reasons. However, it is difficult not to question his sincerity when considering that he had a severe attack of gout that left him bedridden for a few days, prompting him to seek out a new partner.

While we may never know the full details behind this situation, one thing is certain: Gui's story highlights humanity's struggle with letting go. His fixation on preserving his wife's life through cryogenics seems almost desperate, and his decision to move forward with a new relationship raises many questions about loyalty, love, and respect for the deceased.

Cryogenics has long been touted as a means of extending human lifespan, but it is precisely this drive that can be seen as tragic. There is currently no proof that cryopreservation will ever lead to the revival of those who have undergone the process. Instead, it serves as a poignant reminder of mortality and our inability to escape its grasp.

In the end, Gui's story serves as a heart-wrenching reminder of the human capacity for love, loss, and longing. As we consider his situation, we are left with more questions than answers, but one thing is clear: death is an inevitable part of life, and sometimes, no matter how hard we try, it cannot be defied.
 
I feel bad for Gui Junmin, you know? He's just trying to find comfort in a world that's lost his partner, and I don't think he meant any harm by dating again ๐Ÿค”. It's not like he was trying to replace Zhan or anything. And Wang Chunxia seems like a nice person too. I mean, Gui had a gout attack and needed someone to take care of him, so maybe their relationship is just about mutual support? ๐Ÿคทโ€โ™‚๏ธ

It's also worth considering that cryogenics isn't exactly a new thing, and it's not like Zhan explicitly asked Gui to move on or anything. She was frozen for 30 years, which means she's basically gone ๐Ÿ˜”. Maybe Gui is just trying to find a way to cope with his loss? It's complicated, I know, but let's try to be understanding ๐Ÿค—.

I think the real issue here is that we're so quick to judge people based on our own moral codes. We don't know what Gui and Zhan were like in life, or what their relationship was like before she passed away. Maybe they had a deep connection that we can only imagine ๐Ÿ™. All I'm saying is that let's try to be more compassionate towards others, even when things get weird ๐Ÿ’–.
 
omg can you believe this guy Gui Junmin literally froze his wife and then moves on to someone new like what even is his timeline ๐Ÿคฃ and honestly I feel bad for Zhan's frozen body though, poor thing gets thawed out and finds out her hubby found love again while she's still chillin in the ice ๐Ÿ˜‚ meanwhile I'm over here thinking he just wanted a chance to experience life without having to care for a wife who's basically a human freezer ๐Ÿ’€ what's even more cringeworthy is that he said his new relationship with Wang was utilitarian lol like dude, you're not fooling anyone with that explanation ๐Ÿ™„
 
[Image of a person trapped in a freezer, with a confused expression]

[cryogenics emoji](๐ŸงŠ) is not meant to defy mortality ๐ŸŒŽ, but to help us cope ๐Ÿ’”... when we're left here trying to make sense of the human heart โค๏ธ
 
its kinda messed up that people are so quick to judge gui for moving on, i mean, his wife gave consent before she passed away, and now hes just trying to move forward with his life... and honestly, cryogenics is just a weird way of dealing with grief, it sounds like gui was really struggling with the loss and wanted to hold onto something from his wife. dont get me wrong, its not cool that he didnt fully grieve yet, but let him live his life too ๐Ÿค—
 
Ugh, this guy Gui Junmin is just a mess ๐Ÿ˜ฉ. I mean, I get that he's still grieving his wife, but freezing her body for 30 years and then moving on with his life? That's just cold ๐Ÿ’”. And to make matters worse, it sounds like he's only doing it because he needs someone to take care of him when he gets old ๐Ÿคข. It's like, hello, your wife passed away, get over her already! ๐Ÿ˜ญ. Cryogenics might be an interesting technology and all, but it's not a magic solution to make our problems disappear ๐Ÿ”ฎ. I think it's time for Gui Junmin to come to terms with the fact that his wife is really gone ๐Ÿ’€.
 
omg this is so sad ๐Ÿค• like what was going through Gui's mind when he was frozen his wife away only to move on & find love again after 8 yrs ๐Ÿ’” especially since she gave her consent before passing but still he found a new partner & it just feels like he didnt really care about the timing of it all ๐Ÿคทโ€โ™‚๏ธ
 
I'm literally speechless ๐Ÿ˜ฑ, what a sad story. I can understand why Gui did what he did, wanting to hold on to his wife, but having a new partner while his frozen wife is thawing out? ๐Ÿคฏ It's just too much. I don't think it's fair to either woman, if you ask me. And the reason behind their "utility" relationship... ouch ๐Ÿค•, that's just cold (no pun intended) ๐Ÿ’”
 
this whole thing is so messed up ๐Ÿคฏ... i mean, can u even imagine having a wife frozen for 8 years and then finding love again? ๐Ÿ™…โ€โ™‚๏ธ it's like, what even is the point of that? Gui's gotta get some serious counseling or something. his wife might be frozen, but he's still got to deal with human emotions ๐Ÿ’”. and what about Wang Chunxia? does she know about Zhan? is this just a rebound or is there something real between them? ๐Ÿคทโ€โ™‚๏ธ anyway, cryonics 4 life? more like cryonics for the grieving heart ๐Ÿ’€
 
I feel so bad for Zhan's frozen body ๐Ÿค•, like she's stuck in limbo wondering what happened to the man who loved her ๐Ÿ’”. And Gui's new relationship is just confusing - was it really just about convenience or did he truly care for Wang? It's hard not to think that preserving his wife's life through cryogenics was a way for him to hold on to something, anything, after she passed away ๐Ÿ’€.

But at the same time, can we blame him for wanting to move forward with his life? Losing someone is never easy and it's only human to want to experience love again ๐Ÿค—. I guess what really gets me is how society views cryogenics - like it's some kind of magic solution to escape mortality ๐Ÿ’ซ. Newsflash: death is real, folks, and it's not going away anytime soon ๐Ÿ˜”.

What do you guys think? Should Gui have waited for Zhan to thaw out before dating again? Is love really worth the risk of hurting someone who can't respond in return? ๐Ÿค๐Ÿ’•
 
I'm literally still trying to wrap my head around this guy Gui Junmin's situation ๐Ÿคฏ... I mean, I get that he loved his wife so much and wanted to preserve her body for 30 years, but dating again? ๐Ÿ’” That's just cold ๐Ÿ˜Š (pun intended). And now he's saying it's all utilitarian with his new partner Wang Chunxia? ๐Ÿ™„ Come on, dude, can't you just be honest about your feelings? It's like, what happened to the love and respect for Zhan Wenlian that he must have had initially? ๐Ÿ˜” This whole thing is just a reminder that death is an inevitable part of life, but it doesn't mean we gotta lose ourselves in grief forever ๐Ÿ’”.
 
man... this is like something outta a sci-fi movie ๐Ÿค– think gui should just leave zhan's body alone and focus on getting to know wang properly ๐Ÿ˜• his motives are sketchy at best, and its not fair to wang either ๐Ÿ‘€ i mean, cant we just accept that death is part of life and move on? cryogenics is just a fancy way of delaying the inevitable ๐Ÿšจ anyway, its all about finding closure for gui and respecting zhan's memory... wish him well ๐Ÿคž
 
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