This is how we do it: 'Having threesomes has totally transformed us – in and out of bed'

For Many Long-Married Couples, Threesomes Have Become a Game-Changer

In an era where traditional monogamy is being redefined by increasingly open-minded individuals, one couple's foray into threesomes has had a profound impact on their relationship. Bea and Eric, both 48, have been inseparable for 30 years – despite a dip in libido that saw Bea's sex drive dwindle significantly after the birth of her first child. However, with the onset of perimenopause, Bea experienced a resurgence of desire, sending shockwaves through their seemingly monogamous relationship.

The couple's hesitation about exploring non-monogamy was palpable as they contemplated the possibility of adding a third person to their dynamic. Eric's initial apprehensions were rooted in his own insecurities and past experiences with sex – which had led him to internalize Bea's lower libido as rejection. However, once they broached the subject, Bea's openness and enthusiasm played a pivotal role in convincing Eric to take the leap.

Their journey into threesomes began innocuously enough, with online dating and meetups that gradually led to casual encounters with like-minded individuals. The introduction of Feeld, an app catering to open-minded people, proved a turning point in their exploration. Their first encounter with Drake, 40, yielded electric chemistry – and left Bea feeling empowered in ways she never had before.

As the experience progressed, Eric found himself struggling to reconcile his jealousy, which was alleviated by Bea's willingness to discuss her feelings and desires. The couple soon discovered that having a third person in their relationship wasn't as emotionally complicated as they initially thought. Their connection with each other proved strong enough to navigate the complexities of non-monogamy.

However, Eric's journey toward embracing threesomes hasn't been without its challenges. His initial self-doubt and insecurities threatened to undermine his commitment to the arrangement – particularly when he began spending time with Drake alone. Yet, as he reflected on his feelings and desires, he came to realize that his love for Bea far outweighed any sense of competition or jealousy.

For Eric, being able to participate in giving Bea orgasms was a key aspect of his enjoyment in the threesomes. He acknowledged that this experience had helped him rekindle his passion with Bea – and that their connection remained strong despite introducing another person into their relationship.

Bea's transformation since embarking on these non-traditional adventures has been nothing short of remarkable. She now exudes confidence, not just in her intimate encounters but also in everyday life. As Eric notes, the novelty of their threesomes is far from wearing off – and they're eager to continue exploring new experiences together.

Their story serves as a testament to the evolving nature of love and relationships. For Bea and Eric, embracing non-monogamy has brought about a newfound sense of freedom, passion, and connection. As they forge ahead on this unconventional journey, one thing is certain: their bond remains unshakeable – a beacon of hope for those willing to redefine what it means to be in love.
 
I think its awesome how Bea and Eric are redefining what monogamy looks like for them 🤗. I've seen some couples struggle with jealousy when they introduce new people into their relationships, but Eric's willingness to communicate and prioritize his feelings is super inspiring 💬. Its also interesting how the app Feeld has become a game-changer for them, providing a space for open-minded individuals to connect and explore their desires 📱. For me, it just goes to show that relationships are all about evolution and growth - and its never too late to try new things 😊.
 
I'm loving the way these couples are redefining monogamy! 🤩 It's amazing how Bea and Eric were able to take a leap of faith and incorporate threesomes into their relationship, and it sounds like it's had a major impact on their sex life and overall confidence. Feeld is such a great resource for open-minded people looking to connect with like-minded individuals - I've been meaning to check it out myself! 😊 The way they navigated Eric's initial insecurities and jealousy was really interesting to read about, and it's awesome that Bea's openness played a huge role in convincing him to give it a try. Has anyone else tried Feeld or similar apps? 🤔
 
aww that's so beautiful 💕 they're literally proof that love knows no bounds 🌈 and it's amazing how just being open about their desires can bring them even closer together ❤️ Bea's confidence is truly inspiring, she's killing the game 💁‍♀️ and Eric's willingness to work through his insecurities is a major key to their success 🤝 let's give this power couple some love and support 💖
 
i'm reading this article about threesomes and i have no idea how people even discuss this stuff 🤷‍♀️ like what if you're with someone for 30 years and suddenly your libido changes? isn't that kinda hard on the relationship?

i also wonder how do you guys make sure everyone is on the same page? like, does it get confusing when there are three of you trying to navigate feelings and desires at the same time? 🤯

and i'm curious about this app Feeld... what's so special about it? does it have some kinda magic that makes people more open-minded or something?

anyway, i guess the thing that struck me most is how brave Bea and Eric are for trying something so unconventional. i mean, not everyone is gonna be comfortable with non-monogamy, but they're making it work... 🙏
 
can't help but feel Bea & Eric's story is gonna change the game for so many long-married couples out there... 30 years of marriage, and suddenly they're feeling the spark again 🚀💥 it's beautiful to see how they navigated their fears and insecurities together. Feeld app seems like a great tool for them to find like-minded people... not sure if I'd try that myself but hey, it worked for them! 😉 what I really love about this story is that Bea & Eric didn't just add someone new to their relationship, they rekindled the passion between each other. That's something we can all learn from 🙏
 
I'm low-key impressed by Bea & Eric's courage 💁‍♀️💕! They're proof that love can evolve and adapt in the most unexpected ways 🔄. I mean, who would've thought that a 30-year-old marriage could benefit from threesomes? 😂 It just goes to show that relationships aren't one-size-fits-all, and it's all about communication, trust & mutual respect 💗.

I also gotta give it up for Feeld – the app that helped them connect with like-minded folks 📲. I'm curious to see how this non-monogamous journey unfolds for them, and whether they'll continue to find new ways to spice things up 🔥. Either way, their love story is a reminder that relationships are all about growth, self-discovery & embracing the unknown 🔮.

It's also worth noting that Bea's confidence boost since joining threesomes is pretty inspiring 💁‍♀️🔥 – maybe we can learn from her example and become more open to trying new things? 🤔 After all, as Eric says, their bond remains strong despite introducing a new person into the mix ❤️.
 
I feel like threesomes are becoming more accepted as an option for couples 🤝. It's all about communication and making sure everyone involved is on the same page. Bea and Eric's story is so inspiring – they went from being unsure to totally embracing non-monogamy and it brought them even closer together 💕.

I also love how Feeld, the app, played a big role in their journey. It's like, if you're open-minded and willing to try new things, there are people out there who share your interests 🌈. And for Eric, getting to be intimate with Bea again was a game-changer – it helped him rekindle his passion for her 💋.

What I think is really cool about this story is that it's showing us that love and relationships come in all shapes and sizes ❤️. We shouldn't be afraid to experiment and try new things as long as everyone involved is comfortable and happy 😊.
 
🤝 This couple's story is all about embracing the unknown and being open to growth. They've taken a leap of faith into a new experience, which has allowed them to rekindle their passion with each other. It's amazing how Bea's newfound confidence has translated to her everyday life, too! 💁‍♀️ I think this is a great reminder that relationships are all about communication and understanding each other's needs. Eric's initial insecurities were totally valid, but by having an open conversation with Bea, he was able to work through them. It's like they say – the more you communicate, the closer you get! 💬 Their story is a beautiful example of how love can evolve and adapt to our changing desires and needs. 🌱
 
I'm all about giving non-traditional relationships a chance 😏. I think Bea and Eric's story is super inspiring, especially for long-married couples who feel like they've lost that spark. Their journey into threesomes isn't about being promiscuous or trying to spice things up; it's about embracing each other's desires and needs.

I'm also loving how Eric came to realize that his love for Bea wasn't threatened by his time with Drake – but rather, it was amplified. And let's be real, having someone else appreciate your partner can be a total game-changer 💁‍♀️. It's all about communication, trust, and finding ways to make it work.

We're living in a world where traditional relationships are being redefined, and I think that's something we should celebrate 🌈. There's no one-size-fits-all approach to love, and if Bea and Eric's story can inspire others to try non-traditional arrangements, then I'm all for it 👊
 
I'm all about that polyamory life 🤩, but honestly, I think Bea and Eric's story is a reminder that communication is key 💬. Like, if you're gonna explore non-monogamy, you gotta have the talk beforehand – it's not just about adding a third person to the mix, it's about making sure everyone's on the same page 📝.

And I love how Bea took charge of her own desires and desires, but Eric had his own baggage to unpack 🤯. It's like, you can't just introduce someone new into your relationship without addressing your own insecurities – that's just gonna cause more drama 💥.

But what I think is really cool about their story is how it's all about mutual respect and trust 🙏. Like, Eric's jealousy wasn't totally unfounded, but Bea was open with him about her feelings and desires, and they worked through it together 💕. And now they're just enjoying the ride – no drama, no stress 😎.

I'm not saying I'm gonna start a threesomes app anytime soon 📊, but I do think this is a great example of how love can evolve and adapt to changing circumstances ❤️. Bea and Eric's story is like, proof that relationships don't have to be one-size-fits-all – they can be whatever you want them to be 👗.
 
omg i think its so cool how Bea & Eric are redefining traditional monogamy 💕👫, it just goes to show that love can take many forms and what works for one couple might not work for another 🤷‍♀️, but for them adding a third person has brought back the spark in their relationship 🔥, i mean who says you need two people to be passionate about each other? 😉, its all about communication, trust & mutual respect 💯, and Bea's newfound confidence is totally inspiring 🌟, im sure many ppl can relate to feeling like they've lost some of their spark after having kids or life gets in the way 🤰♀️👶
 
I think its pretty cool that Bea & Eric are redefining monogamy, you know? They went from feeling like they'd lost each other to finding new ways to connect 🤝. It's like, their love wasn't dead or anything, it just needed a little spark 🔥. And yeah, I can see how online dating and apps helped them find someone who understood what they were going through. But its not just about the sex life (although that does seem to be a big part of it 😉), its about communication, trust & being willing to grow together as people 💬.

I mean, Eric's insecurities are pretty relatable – I've been there too where we question whether our partner really wants us or if they're just going through the motions 🤔. But Bea's openness and willingness to talk things out really helped him work through that stuff. And in the end, it wasn't about replacing Bea with someone else, but about finding new ways to experience life together 🌞.

It just goes to show that relationships are always evolving & that what works for one couple might not work for another. But if Bea & Eric can find freedom, passion & connection in a non-traditional way, then I'm all for it 💖!
 
I'm so obsessed with this couple's story 🤯 - it just shows that relationships can evolve and grow in the most unexpected ways. I mean, 30 years together is no joke, and for them to have a 'third wheel' bring new excitement into their relationship is just amazing 💕. It makes me wonder, what other non-traditional arrangements are out there, and how do they work? Are we gonna see more couples embracing the polyamory lifestyle in the future? I'm all about Bea's newfound confidence - she's rocking that perimenopause thing like it's a superpower 💁‍♀️. Eric's journey from jealousy to acceptance is so inspiring too 🤝... and can we talk about how fabulous it is to see a couple prioritizing communication and desire in their relationship?
 
I think it's so cool that Bea and Eric are redefining monogamy in such a positive way 🤩 They're proving that relationships can be more about connection and mutual desire rather than traditional expectations. And it's awesome that Feeld helped them find like-minded people to explore with 😊 I also love how Bea's newfound confidence is having a ripple effect on their everyday life - she seems like an amazing partner 👫
 
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