Woman 'overwhelmed' by loneliness killed herself and disabled daughter, coroner says

A Desperate Cry for Help Ends in Tragedy

The tragic story of Martina Karos, a 40-year-old translator who became the sole caregiver for her severely disabled eight-year-old daughter Eleni, has shed light on the devastating consequences of social isolation and loneliness. The heartbreaking tale culminated in both mother and daughter's untimely deaths due to carbon monoxide poisoning.

Karos' life was marked by struggles with mental health following a tumultuous relationship breakup, and her role as a full-time caregiver for Eleni left her feeling isolated and disconnected from the world. Despite receiving an array of support services, including daily visits from carers, social workers, and respite care, Karos continued to feel overwhelmed by loneliness.

Her closest friend described the situation, stating that it wasn't just the physical challenges of caring for a child with limited mobility and blindness, but the sheer isolation that was suffocating Karos. The friend highlighted her intelligence, linguistic abilities, and warmth, saying she was "a great person who got stuck in a terrible place."

The coroner's report concluded that Karos deliberately placed herself and Eleni in an environment where they were overwhelmed by carbon monoxide with the intention of ending both their lives. Despite the efforts to provide support and care, the toxic effects of loneliness and isolation proved too much for Karos.

This tragic incident serves as a stark reminder of the urgent need to address social isolation and the importance of accessible mental health services. As Peter Sigee, the area coroner for Greater Manchester West, stated, "There is no objective basis to suggest she would harm herself or her daughter." The tragedy highlights that even with extensive support, some individuals may not receive the help they desperately need.

If you or someone you know is struggling with loneliness or suicidal thoughts, please reach out to a crisis helpline or service in your country. Remember, there is always hope and support available.
 
Wow 🀯 this story is so heartbreaking it's like what happened to Martina Karos could've been prevented if she got the right help in time πŸ’” her friend said she was a great person who just got stuck in a terrible place 🌧️ mental health services need to be more accessible and people need to talk about their struggles without fear of being judged πŸ’¬
 
ugh this is so heartbreaking... 40 years old and she was literally drowning in grief & responsibility πŸ€• her story is like so many others where society's expectations & lack of support suffocates people, especially women who put everyone else first before themselves... we need to rethink our whole system & prioritize mental health & social connections over just throwing money at the problem πŸ’ΈπŸ‘΅πŸ’”
 
I'm literally shaking my head over this story 🀯... I mean, how can something that's so heartbreaking at the same time be true? Martina Karos was like, super smart and talented, but she still felt so alone and lost in her life πŸ€·β€β™€οΈ. Like, what can you do when the people who are supposed to help you are actually the ones causing you more pain? The fact that she had all these support services, but they didn't seem to be working for her, is just... *sigh* πŸ˜”.

And I'm not even going to get started on how messed up it sounds that she might have taken herself and her daughter out of the picture 🀒. Like, what's more tragic than that? But at the same time... can we really blame her for feeling like that? I mean, who wouldn't want to escape the pain and pressure of being a full-time caregiver? It's just so complicated 😩.
 
OMG this is such a heartbreaking story πŸ€•β€οΈ I cant even imagine how hard it must've been for Martina & Eleni to deal with all that isolation πŸ˜©πŸ’” it's like the system failed them in so many ways & it's just devastating πŸ’€ but at the same time its making me think of all those people out there who are struggling too πŸ€— & we need to be more supportive 🀝 & aware of the resources available πŸ’‘ lets break down that stigma around mental health & loneliness & make sure everyone knows they're not alone πŸ’•
 
man πŸ˜” this story just breaks my heart she was only trying to do what's best for her daughter but the system failed her so badly it's like they say when you're drowning and you reach out for help but someone pulls the rope instead 🀯

it's not just about the physical challenges of caring for a child, it's about the emotional toll of being isolated and alone all the time πŸ’” i think we need to do better as a society to support people like martina karos who are struggling so hard πŸ’–

and can we talk about how the coroner said there was no objective basis for her to harm herself or her daughter but what if that's exactly what happens when you're pushed to the edge and there's no one there to catch you? πŸ€”
 
I'm totally with the coroner on this one πŸ™„, thinking she deliberately did it herself. I mean, who needs that much help before they just give up? It's like everyone's trying to pat her on the back for being a good caregiver, but honestly, sometimes you gotta take responsibility for your own life, no matter how hard it gets πŸ’β€β™€οΈ. And all these services they're offering, daily visits, social workers, respite care... just seems like a bunch of Band-Aids πŸ€•. I'm not buying the whole "she was stuck in a terrible place" excuse. Get over it, Karos! Life's tough, deal with it πŸ’ͺ.
 
πŸ€¦β€β™€οΈ u guys think its just bc she was a full time caregiver thats why she snapped? but whats the point of havin all these support services if ur still feelin like u r drowning in ur own emotions? 🚿 idk about everyone else, but i cant help thinkin that society places way too much pressure on ppl to be strong & put up a facade when really they're just tryna survive πŸ’”
 
I'm so sorry to hear about Martina & Eleni's story πŸ€•πŸ˜”. It breaks my heart 2 think about how desperate she must've felt & how isolating her life was πŸ˜”. I mean, having a child w/ limited mobility & blindness can be super challenging, but it's not just that - it's the emotional toll of being alone in the world. Mental health support services r like, woefully inadequate 2 people who need them most πŸ’”.

I remember reading about this story ages ago & I thought, "this is what happens when you don't prioritize your own well-being" πŸ€·β€β™€οΈ but now it's just a harsh reminder that we gotta do better. We gotta make sure ppl have access 2 proper support & care, not just some half-hearted attempts at helping πŸ˜”.

If only more people understood how hard it is 2 live w/ chronic illness or disability, maybe we'd see less cases like Martina's... but I guess that's a conversation 4 another time πŸ€·β€β™€οΈ. Anyway, RIP Martina & Eleni πŸ’•
 
this is getting worse by the day lol πŸ˜©β€πŸ€• carbon monoxide poisoning can happen anywhere, not just to these 2 ppl. think about all the people who have loved ones with disabilities & are struggling w/ isolation & loneliness... it's heartbreaking πŸ™. we need better mental health services & support systems that don't leave ppl feeling like they're stuck in a dark place πŸ’”
 
πŸ˜” I'm so sad about this story it's like... what can we do to prevent this kind of tragedy from happening again? We gotta look at how we're supporting people who are feeling lonely and isolated. It's not just about throwing resources their way, but also making sure they know someone cares. These support services sound amazing, but maybe they weren't enough for Martina. It makes me wonder if we could do more to prevent this kind of thing from happening in the future... πŸ€”
 
i'm so sad about martina karos' story πŸ€•. her situation sounds like it was super tough to deal with - full-time caregiving for her kid, struggling with mental health, and feeling totally isolated. i can imagine how overwhelming it must've been. it's crazy that despite all the support services she got, she still felt suffocated by loneliness 🀯.

i think this tragedy highlights how important it is to provide accessible mental health services and social support systems. we need to make sure people like martina get the help they need before things escalate to tragic ends πŸ’”. if you or someone you know is struggling with loneliness or suicidal thoughts, please don't hesitate to reach out - there are always people who care πŸ€—.

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Ugh, this story broke my heart πŸ€•. I mean, what's the point of all these new technologies and innovations if we can't even take care of each other? This woman was clearly struggling with mental health issues and feeling isolated, but did anyone really do anything to help her? It just feels like so many people are stuck in this same cycle of loneliness and desperation. And the thing that really gets me is that she had access to all these support services, but still felt like she was drowning alone 🌊. Can't we learn from this tragedy and make some real changes?
 
man this story just breaks my heart πŸ€• it's like, we're living in a society where people are literally dying from feeling so alone they can't take it anymore. and the thing is, it doesn't have to be that way 🌱 we gotta make sure our support systems are in place for people like martina, who just need someone to talk to or help with the daily grind.

i mean think about it, mental health services are crucial, but they're not a one-size-fits-all solution. we need more community-driven initiatives that focus on preventing social isolation and building connections between people. it's all about creating a web of support that catches people before things escalate to tragedy πŸ˜•
 
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