Are you a ditherer, sharer or pre-preparer? What your menu ordering style says about you | Polly Hudson

The Art of Menu Ordering: What Your Choices Reveal About You

Rishi Sunak's epic struggle over a Dover sole in Mayfair's The Dover has brought to light an often-overlooked aspect of human behavior - our menu ordering styles. How we approach ordering can say more about us than we realize, and it's not just about the food itself.

There are three distinct types of individuals who dominate the restaurant scene: ditherers, sharers, and pre-preppers. Ditherers like Sunak take their time, consulting with waiters, agonizing over choices, and sometimes even involving others in the decision-making process. This behavior can be attributed to anxiety or indecision, making dining out a stressful experience for all parties involved.

Sharers, on the other hand, take an unconventional approach by deciding together as a team and then switching plates mid-meal. While this might seem like a great idea, it's often met with frustration due to perceived co-dependency. These individuals can't help but wonder when they'll be able to eat their own meal without compromise.

At the other end of the spectrum are pre-preppers - meticulous researchers who study menus online and arrive prepared, refusing to budge from their choices. While this approach shows dedication, it can also leave them feeling isolated if the menu changes unexpectedly.

But what about those in between? The ones who take a little time to decide, but ultimately make up their minds? For some, ordering is an exercise in self-sacrifice, where they'd rather please others than themselves. This can be seen in friends who refuse to order the same dish as everyone else, even if it's what they really want.

Ultimately, our menu ordering styles reveal more about us than we think. Whether we're driven by anxiety or indecision, or meticulous planning and dedication, our choices say something about our personalities and values. So next time you sit down at a restaurant, take a closer look at your ordering habits - it might just tell you a thing or two about yourself.
 
πŸ€” I think it's kinda funny how we make decisions over food, right? Like, who hasn't been that person who takes 10 mins to decide between two options? πŸ΄πŸ˜‚ And then there are those who just know what they want and go with it - no fuss! πŸ™Œ It's like, your menu order is like a little glimpse into your personality, but in a weird way... you're all like "Oh yeah, I'm gonna get this dish because it says 'I'm adventurous' on the label" πŸ€·β€β™€οΈ. But honestly, who hasn't been that person at some point? πŸ˜‚
 
πŸ€” I mean, can't we just relax when we're eating out? Ordering food is supposed to be enjoyable, not a stress test πŸ™…β€β™‚οΈ. This whole 'ditherer', 'sharer', and 'pre-prepper' vibe is a bit too binary for me - what about those of us who are just chill and order whatever looks good? 😐 It's like we're being judged on our dining habits or something... shouldn't it just be about sharing a meal with friends and having a good time? πŸ΄πŸ’¬
 
πŸ€” I think its pretty cool how menu ordering can be like a mood ring for people...like if ur really indecisive u prob got some anxiety issues 🚨 but on the other hand, being super meticulous bout what u order says like u value ur time & attention to detail πŸ’Ό. And idk about sharers tho - cant they just communicate w/ their friends about whats good? πŸ€·β€β™€οΈ
 
omg i'm def a sharer 🀝 lol i always end up getting like 3 dishes at once and then we all fight over who gets to finish what πŸ˜‚ can't live with 'em, can't live without 'em right? anyway, the article makes total sense tho - my fave is the pre-preppers tho, they're just so... dedicated πŸ€“ i mean, i'd never do that but it's cool that they have their own way of doing things. what about you guys, are u sharers or pre-preppers in the kitchen? 😊
 
omg i can totes relate to the ditherers 🀯 like every time my friends and i go out for dinner we always end up taking ages to decide what to order and then we end up getting something completely different from our original choices it's so frustrating! πŸ€¦β€β™€οΈ but i think it's also kinda funny how some ppl just can't even be bothered to make a decision on their own they're like "let's just share everything" and then proceed to take ages over which one of us gets to eat the burger first πŸ˜‚ anyway i wish more ppl would just chill out and not overthink their menu choices it's just food lol
 
πŸ€” I mean, can you imagine if politicians were as transparently honest about their inner thoughts while making public decisions? πŸ™„ Like, Sunak's struggle over that Dover sole is basically like watching a politician wring their hands over a budget proposal... just not the kind of transparency we're used to from our leaders. πŸ˜… And what's up with these pre-preppers? I get it, planning ahead is cool and all, but can't they just relax and enjoy the experience? πŸ€·β€β™‚οΈ On the other hand, sharers are like my aunt at a family dinner... always trying to involve everyone else in the conversation. πŸ˜‚ But seriously, do our menu choices really reveal that much about us? I mean, I'd rather not be judged by what I order, you know? πŸ€·β€β™‚οΈ
 
πŸ€” I'm kinda fascinated by how much our menu ordering styles can reveal about us, like... the Dover sole guy is low-key stressing about his decision πŸ™…β€β™‚οΈ and then there are sharers who are all about compromise (but maybe a bit too much? 🀝) Meanwhile, pre-preppers just want to be in control, but might feel kinda isolated if they get what they ordered. And what's up with those "self-sacrificing" folks who order whatever everyone else likes instead of their own fave? It's like, are we trying to please others or ourselves out here? πŸ€·β€β™€οΈ Anyway, next time I'm at a restaurant, I'll def be paying attention to my own ordering habits to see what they say about me πŸ‘€.
 
OMG, can you believe Rishi Sunak had a drama-filled dinner experience? 🍴🀣 I'm more of a "pre-prepper" myself, always scouting out menus online and making my order in advance. But, I gotta say, sharers are kinda weird... switching plates mid-meal like that is just too much! πŸ™…β€β™‚οΈ And ditherers can be super annoying, taking forever to decide what to get 😴. But hey, at least it's a funny story about the prime minister, right? πŸ˜†
 
🀯 I gotta say, this article is spot on! I mean, who hasn't been that ditherer in a fancy restaurant? πŸ΄πŸ˜‚ Rishi Sunak's struggle with the Dover sole had me chuckling out loud, and I'm sure many people can relate to his indecision. But what I love about this piece is how it highlights our shared human quirks. Like, who hasn't been that sharer in a group dinner where everyone wants to switch plates mid-meal? πŸ€¦β€β™€οΈπŸ΄ And those pre-preppers? Total pros, but also super commitment issues πŸ˜‚.

I think what I love most about this article is how it's not just about food, but about our personalities and values. Like, why do we order the same dish over and over again? Is it because we love it, or because we're afraid to try something new? πŸ€” So yeah, next time you're at a restaurant, take a closer look at your ordering habits... you might just learn something about yourself! πŸ‘€
 
I mean, who hasn't been that one person in the group that's always asking for seconds... I know I have! 🀣 But seriously, this article makes me think about how our food choices can be pretty revealing about us. Like, if we're a pre-prepper, it's probably because we value control and planning, which is pretty cool. On the other hand, being a sharer might mean we're not as confident in our own tastes or just really bad at making decisions πŸ€¦β€β™‚οΈ. And then there are those of us who take ages to decide... yeah, that's me too! πŸ˜… I guess it all comes down to being honest with ourselves and others about what we want and don't want.
 
Ugh I'm so done with these menu ordering types 😩 like Sunak's situation is literally the epitome of dithering... I mean what's wrong with just making up their mind already?! 🀯 And sharers who switch plates mid-meal? Like, no thanks, that's just rude to the poor waiter who has to deal with it. But at the same time, pre-preppers can be kinda annoying too, all research-y and stuff... I'm like, dude just order something if you're gonna sit there for an hour deciding πŸ€·β€β™€οΈ And then there are those in between, where like, why do they need to torture themselves by not ordering what they want? Can't we just be spontaneous for once?!
 
So this article is giving me life! I mean, who knew that what we order in restaurants could say so much about us? 🀯 I'm definitely a pre-prepper myself - I spend hours scouring menus online and planning out my meals before I even go to the restaurant. My friends always joke that I'm like a food critic or something. πŸ˜‚ But seriously, I think it's interesting how our menu ordering styles can reveal things about us, like whether we're anxious or indecisive or just really dedicated to getting what we want. And I love how the article highlights all these different types of people - from ditherers who need help deciding, to sharers who are trying too hard to compromise, to pre-preppers like me who just know what they want. It's all so relatable! πŸ€ͺ
 
I'm like, totally fascinated by how much our menu ordering styles can reveal about us 🀯🍴. Like, I've always been one of those people who takes their time deciding what to order (ditherer πŸ˜…), but then I've also had friends who are super decisive and know exactly what they want from the start (pre-preppers). And don't even get me started on sharers - my partner is like that, and it can be hilarious because we're always switching plates mid-meal 🀣.

I think it's interesting that our choices say something about our personalities and values, you know? Like, I've noticed that when I order for myself, I tend to go with what sounds good without really thinking about it too much (self-sacrifice). But when I'm with friends and they're all ordering the same thing, I get a little anxious because I feel like I need to do something different to fit in πŸ€”.

Anyway, next time we're out at a restaurant, I'm going to pay closer attention to my ordering habits and see if it reveals anything about myself πŸ˜‚.
 
I don't buy into this whole "menu ordering styles reveal personality" nonsense πŸ€”. I mean, sure, some people are gonna be indecisive or a perfectionist when it comes to food, but that doesn't necessarily say anything about who they are as a person. It's just food, right? And what's with all the drama around sharers and pre-preppers? Can't we just chill out and order whatever we want without making a big deal about it? 🍴 I'm more concerned with how much the bill is gonna be than what kind of personality trait I'm exhibiting.
 
I'm so over these articles that think I can learn some deep life lesson from what I order for dinner πŸ€¦β€β™€οΈ. Like, yeah I take my time deciding between the burger and pasta, but it's not because I'm anxious or indecisive... it's just because I don't want to spend 50 bucks on a mediocre meal πŸ€‘. And those sharers? Please, if you're going to order a bunch of stuff that nobody's actually going to eat, at least have the decency to split it equally between everyone πŸ’β€β™€οΈ. And pre-preppers? That just shows me how much work I don't want to do when I'm paying good money for dinner 🀣. Can we just focus on enjoying our food instead of analyzing every little detail about ourselves?
 
I don’t usually comment but... I mean, who hasn't been there where they're trying to decide between like 3 different dishes on the menu and their brain is just frozen 🀯? But what really caught my eye was the whole sharers vs pre-preppers thing. Like, I get that some people might be super indecisive or overly organized but can we also talk about how annoying it can be when someone's too prepared for a spontaneous dinner with friends? It's like, we're trying to relax and enjoy each other's company but you're over here pouring over the menu online 🀣. And what's up with that whole self-sacrifice thing though? Like, is it really better to just go along with what everyone else wants or should we be speaking our truth even if it means being a little weird in front of others? πŸ€·β€β™€οΈ
 
I gotta say, this whole menu ordering thing is kinda weird πŸ€”... I mean, who makes a whole article about what our food choices reveal about us? It's like, come on! You're gonna analyze the way people order food and try to psychoanalyze them based on it? Like, my friend orders the same dish every time because she loves it, not because she's trying to send some secret message about her personality πŸ€·β€β™€οΈ... I don't know, maybe I'm just a skeptic πŸ˜’...
 
idk what's wrong with taking ur time to order food πŸ€·β€β™‚οΈ like rishi sunak in that fancy restaurant, he's not gonna die if he orders a Dover sole after 10 mins πŸ˜‚ and sharers who switch plates mid-meal? sounds like a recipe for disaster 🚨 or maybe they're just trying to be adventurous 🌟 but the whole "pre-preppers" thing is kinda annoying, always researching menus like it's a job interview or something πŸ“ can't we just chill and order what looks good without overthinking it 😎
 
I think its wild how our menu ordering styles can reflect our personalities on a deeper level... like rishi sunak's epic struggle over that Dover sole was actually kinda relatable to me, you know? I mean, who hasn't had those moments where you're just trying to make the right choice but everyone else seems to be making it way harder for you πŸ€¦β€β™‚οΈ. And yeah, sharers can be a bit of a mystery - is that really co-dependency or are they just really easy-going? Meanwhile, pre-preppers might be like the ultimate control freaks, always trying to plan every little detail down to the last bite 🍴. But honestly, I think its more interesting to see people who fall somewhere in between, you know, where ordering is all about making a compromise and being okay with maybe not getting what they want... that's kinda like life, right? πŸ€·β€β™‚οΈ
 
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