At 17, She Gave Up Her Son. Sixty Years Later, She Found Him on Death Row.

For decades, Sandra's life had been a web of choices and regret. She thought about the one decision she made at 17 that would haunt her for years to come: giving up her son for adoption.

She remembered the day vividly - January 3, 1963, at a home for unwed mothers in Queens. Her baby boy was born weighing just over seven pounds. That same day, Sandra's life changed forever. She never got to hold him again.

Over the years, she went on to have a successful career and build a loving family of her own. But there were times when Sandra couldn't shake off the feeling that something was missing. It wasn't until 1975, at the age of 30, that she began searching for her son.

After decades of searching, Sandra finally found her son, Richard Barry Randolph, on death row in Florida in 2022. The news came as a shock to both of them. Sandra had been preparing for this moment for years but was still unprepared for the reality of seeing her son behind bars.

As she sat down with her son, she saw a man who was different from the child she had given up all those years ago. He was 63 now and had spent nearly 37 years on death row. His conversion to Islam had changed him, but it was also what made him who he is today.

The story of Richard Randolph's life is one of tragedy, abuse, and neglect. He grew up in a troubled home with an abusive father and a mother struggling with addiction. Despite this, he found solace in music and eventually became involved with the wrong crowd.

Addiction was a major part of his downfall, but it also led him to make choices that put him on death row. Sandra's search for her son had been long and arduous, but she finally found him before he met his maker.

As they talked, Sandra realized that there were times when they lived just a few miles apart in New York City. It's a thought that haunts her - what if she had known about him? What if she had been able to intervene?

The conversation was bittersweet, filled with regret and longing. Sandra wishes she could have done things differently, but she knows that hindsight is always 20/20.

In the end, it's not easy for Sandra to come to terms with what has happened. She's afraid of finding out how her son's life turned out behind bars, and she's scared of losing him all over again.

As they said their goodbyes, Sandra knew that she would carry this pain with her forever. But she also knew that she had finally found closure - a chance to see her son one last time before he was gone.

The story of Richard Randolph is a tragic reminder that sometimes life doesn't go as planned. It's a story about regret and longing, but also about the power of love and forgiveness.
 
Ugh πŸ€• this reunion story is so sad πŸ˜” its like she gave up on her son for 37 yrs & now hes dying in prison meanwhile shes just trying to cope with the what ifs... like she was even close to him at all? πŸ“ thats a tough pill to swallow.
 
omg i cant even imagine how hard it must be for sandra to finally find her son after all these years 😩 like she had no idea what couldve happened to him his whole life & now hes on death row πŸš” 37 yrs is a long time and its so unfair that he didnt get the chance at a happy life πŸ˜” i feel bad for him too, he went through so much abuse & neglect in his childhood πŸ€• but also getting involved with the wrong crowd and addiction... it's like life took him down this really dark path πŸŒ‘ what if sandra had known about him? what if she couldve intervened? thats the million-dollar question πŸ’Έ i think its amazing that she was able to find closure tho, seeing him one last time is a beautiful thing ❀️
 
can you imagine living with this weight for so long? like, 37 years on death row... it's heartbreaking 😭. Sandra's story is so tragic, yet she's still got this sense of hope and closure after finally finding her son. I think we can all relate to feeling lost or disconnected from our own lives, you know? what if we made a choice that would change everything? πŸ€” the fact that they lived just a few miles apart in NYC is like, totally mind-blowing... what if she had known about him?! 😱
 
can u imagine havin a child & then losin them 4eva... like sandra's story it's just heartbreaking thinkin bout what cud have been if she'd known her son was still alive πŸ˜” his life sounds so messed up & i'm not surprised he ended up on death row. addiction is like a plague, man... anyway u gotta feel bad 4 sandra, all these years of searchin & finally findin out her son's still alive but then hes on death row... that's just cruel πŸ€•
 
man this is such a deep dive into the human experience 🀯... think about it, Sandra made this choice at 17 to give up her son, and it's like she was trying to escape or prove something to herself, but what if that decision came back to haunt her in the worst possible way? 37 years of searching for a glimpse of hope, only to be met with tragedy... it's heartbreaking πŸ€•... and the thing is, we can't help but wonder, what would've happened if she had known about him all those years ago? would she have been able to change his path or was it always meant to go down that road? it's like our lives are this crazy web of choices and regret, sometimes we get lucky breaks, other times... not so much πŸ˜”.
 
πŸ€• what's so crazy is how one decision can haunt u for decades and affect people lives in ways we cant even imagine... Sandra's story is like that - she made this choice at 17 and its been weighing her down ever since. And then to find out her son was on death row all these years... it's just devastating. πŸ˜” I feel so bad for both of them, but also kinda relieved that she got to see him one last time before he went. It's like, what if she had known about him all those yrs ago? πŸ€·β€β™€οΈ would things be different now? We'll never know.
 
πŸ€• my heart goes out to Sandra & her son, it's like what if she had 1 chance 2 change thngs but hindsight is 20/20 πŸ™„... it's so sad that he ended up on death row due 2 his past struggles with addiction & abuse πŸ˜”... u can feel the pain & longing in their conversation... forgiveness is key, maybe Sandra's search 4 him was a test of her own strength & love πŸ’–... still sad 4 them but glad she got 2 see him one last time 🌹
 
πŸ˜” You know when you're stuck in this cycle of what ifs and maybes? Like Sandra, we all wonder how our lives would've turned out if certain choices had been different. 🀯 It's like looking at a fork in the road, wondering which path we shoulda taken. But here's the thing - life doesn't give us do-overs, it just gives us new perspectives. πŸ’‘ And sometimes those perspectives are bittersweet. 🌫️ We can always learn from our mistakes and try to be better, but we can never go back in time. The good news is that love and forgiveness can still heal the wounds of yesterday. ❀️ So even though it's hard for Sandra to come to terms with her son's past, she's found closure - and that's what matters most. πŸ’•
 
πŸ€” I mean, can you believe this guy spent 37 yrs on death row? πŸš«πŸ’€ Sandra's son was basically given up at birth & she only found out 59 yrs later. What if she had known about him back then? Would things have turned out differently? The thought of it is haunting. And now that they've met, she's all regretful & stuff. πŸ˜” I get why she'd feel that way - it's like losing two sons in one lifetime. πŸ€• This whole story is just so bittersweet. It's a reminder that life isn't always fair or easy. Sometimes you make choices that have consequences, but we can only hope for forgiveness & closure. πŸ’”
 
this story is just heartbreaking πŸ€• i can imagine how hard it must've been for Sandra to search for her son after all these years. 37 years on death row is just devastating ... like what if she had known where he was? would things have turned out differently? it's a bittersweet ending, but at least Sandra got closure, right? πŸ€—
 
πŸ€” This guy's story is so sad... I feel bad for Sandra for having to make such a difficult decision at 17 & then living with it all these years. But on the other hand, her son made some pretty poor choices in life - he ended up on death row. It's like, you can't help but wonder if there was something more she could've done or said back then to change his path πŸ€·β€β™€οΈ.

It's crazy that they lived so close to each other & Sandra had no idea about her son's existence for decades πŸ’₯. But at the same time, I think it's amazing that she found him just in time & got to see him one last time before... you know 🚫. The fact that he's converted to Islam doesn't take away from his story or anything.

What really gets me is Sandra's regret & longing - it's like she wishes she could turn back the clock & do things differently πŸ˜”. But I think what's most important here is that she found closure, even if it was just for a little while πŸ’•.
 
oh man this story is so sad πŸ€•... i can only imagine how hard it must be for Sandra to finally find her son after all these years, but also to see him in such a state... his life story is like a movie drama or something 😱. I mean, 37 yrs on death row? that's just crazy! and the fact that he went through so much abuse and addiction... it's heartbreaking πŸ€—. I think Sandra should definitely be commended for not giving up searching for her son all these years, it says a lot about her character ❀️. but yeah, it's also hard to watch their conversation and see them both struggling with regret and longing... it's like they're reliving the whole experience over again 😭.
 
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