Ugh, this couple situation is giving me so much anxiety
. Like, I get it, she's got depression and all, but can't she see how her actions are affecting him? It's not just about her own well-being, it's about the fact that he's being forced to deal with a situation he didn't sign up for
. And what's with the "stay faithful" vibe? That's not exactly the most healthy dynamic in a relationship
.
I think the husband needs to have an honest convo with himself about what he wants and needs from his marriage
. If it's really meant to be, then he shouldn't be tolerating this kind of behavior
. But at the same time, I feel for him because he's being dragged into all this drama without even a chance to process it
. Maybe it's time for some couples therapy or counseling? 
I think the husband needs to have an honest convo with himself about what he wants and needs from his marriage