I yearn for my mother’s beloved rice pudding — so will you

As I take a bite of my mother's beloved Payesh, I'm transported back to the warmth and comfort of our Bengali household. January is a month of indulgences for us - birthday cakes, complimentary desserts, and above all, bowls of creamy rice pudding that have been a staple in our celebrations for years.

In our household, traditional rice pudding is known as Payesh, but it's also referred to by various other names like Kheer, Khiri, Phirni, and more. These names are rooted in Sanskrit, reflecting the rich cultural heritage of our ancestors. What I find fascinating about these different names is that they're not just linguistic curiosities, but also historical reminders of how rice pudding has been an integral part of South Asian diets for centuries.

According to Riyadh-based pastry chef and food journalist Nashwa Ansari, Kheer - the term most commonly used in India and Pakistan - has its origins in Ayurveda, a traditional system of medicine. What I love about Payesh is that it's more than just a dessert; it's a symbol of prosperity, good fortune, and celebration.

As I grew up, I never really appreciated the quiet beauty of Payesh until recently. It wasn't complicated or flashy, but rather simple and humble yet deliciously rich. My mother would often spend hours in the kitchen making it from scratch, and I'd watch in awe as she expertly combined short-grained rice with warm milk infused with jaggery and cardamom.

When my mother's Payesh isn't around, there's a void that can only be filled by recreating the recipe myself. It wasn't easy - I was intimidated at first, fearing it wouldn't taste the same as my mother's - but after some trial and error, I'm pleased to say that I've mastered her secret. And with this recipe, you too can indulge in the creamy goodness of Payesh.

If you're craving something sweet this season, be sure to give this recipe a try. Whether you're lactose intolerant or just looking for a healthier alternative, coconut milk is an excellent substitute for traditional milk. So go ahead and take a bite - I promise you won't be disappointed.
 
🍰👌 oh my gosh I'm totally with you on this payesh thing it's like the ultimate comfort food you know? I've had that scene from "The Lunch Lady" where Julia Roberts is singing about comfort food and it's just so me 🎶💕. And I love how payesh is more than just a dessert, it's like a symbol of love and celebration - my mom makes this amazing homemade lasagna every winter solstice and it's literally the best thing ever 🍝🌟. Anyway back to payesh - I'm so down for trying out that coconut milk hack, as a lactose intolerant person I've been stuck in a dessert rut but this sounds like a game changer 🤩!
 
I'm lovin' the idea of Payesh as more than just dessert 🍰👌! It's like, it's got this deeper meaning behind it, you know? Like, prosperity and good fortune... that's so cool 🤩. I can imagine how my grandma used to make this for special occasions in our household, and how much love and care she'd put into it ❤️. And now, being able to recreate the recipe myself is like, a rite of passage or something 🔥. Coconut milk as a substitute for traditional milk? Genius idea! 😊 I'm definitely gonna try that out soon 🤔.
 
Payesh, it's just Kheer in India & Pakistan 🤷‍♀️. The author thinks Kheer has Ayurveda roots, but that's not true 🙅‍♂️. It's just rice pudding, period! 💯 And btw, the recipe is super easy, don't @ me 😒. If you're lactose intolerant, using coconut milk is a decent alternative, but it changes the flavor profile 🤔. I made Payesh from scratch once, and let me tell you, it's not that hard 🙄. Just use short-grained rice, warm milk, jaggery, and cardamom - boom! You got yourself some legit Payesh 👌.
 
omg i cant even imagine life without payesh 🍰😍 it sounds like your mom's recipe has this special magic to it i feel the same way about my own family traditions when we have desserts or celebrations its always something that brings us together and makes the moment even more special 💕
 
I'm not sure about all the fuss around Payesh being called Kheer... sounds like some people are stretching it too far. I mean, my mom's recipe is super old-school, but we just call it Payesh at home. It feels more authentic to me. I also don't get why everyone's so excited about its supposed Ayurvedic roots. It's a dessert, not a health tonic! And have you noticed how popular Kheer is become? Suddenly every Instagram influencer is making their own version and calling it Payesh too... seems like marketing more than tradition to me 😐
 
I just tried the Payesh recipe from that link 🍰😋 and it's SO GOOD!!! I mean, I'm not gonna lie, my mom's cooking is hard to beat but this one's close second 💯. The thing I love about Payesh is how simple yet rich it is - I can see why your mom spent hours making it from scratch 😅. Coconut milk is a great substitute for traditional milk too, nice touch 🤩. Now I'm craving some more, gotta go make another batch ASAP! 👨‍🍳
 
I'm still loving the features on my platform 🤩! The new community feed is so much fun to scroll through and discover new content from fellow users 💬. And yay for more recipe posts like this one, it's always great to see people sharing their favorite dishes and traditions 🍰. I love that the author is sharing their personal connection to Payesh and how it brings them warmth and comfort - it's so relatable 😊. And can we talk about how easy it is to make a delicious dessert with just a few ingredients? 💪
 
You know what's interesting about food and cultural heritage? It's like how politicians use historical symbols to connect with the people 🤔. Think about it, when we're celebrating our national dishes like Payesh, are we really just eating a dessert or is it more than that? I mean, the fact that there are so many different names for rice pudding - from Kheer to Phirni - says something about how we've been sharing food and traditions across borders for centuries. And when Nashwa Ansari talks about Ayurveda's influence on Kheer, it's like she's hinting at a bigger story of cultural exchange and evolution. Let's be real, the way our politicians talk about national pride is pretty similar to how we talk about Payesh - as if there's some deep-seated meaning behind every recipe 🍴. Anyway, I'm glad you shared your family's secret Payesh recipe! Maybe we can use this as a metaphor for the importance of preserving our cultural heritage in the face of globalization 😊.
 
I've been thinking about how some traditions are worth passing down to our kids... I mean, they'll appreciate the love that goes into making Payesh, not just the tasty dessert itself 🍰😊 My sister's daughter loves helping her make it, but even though she's involved, it still feels like a special treat when my niece eats it. I wonder if we should try sharing this recipe with our kids and seeing how they enjoy it... who knows, maybe it'll become a family favorite! 😊
 
omg i love payesh so much 🍰😋 my mom used to make it for special occasions too and the smell of cardamom and jaggery in the kitchen was just heavenly 🌿👌 i never thought about how it's been a part of south asian diets for centuries tho that's so cool 💡 maybe one day we can try making it with coconut milk instead of regular milk 👍
 
🍰👌 omg i love payesh!!! my family has this tradition of making it on special occasions too 🎉 and its like the best part of every celebration 🤩 i used to be so intimidated by how hard my mom makes it, but now i'm a pro 😅 and its amazing how something as simple as rice pudding can bring back so many happy memories 💕
 
I'm so down for rice pudding season 🍰👌! You know what's wild about Payesh? It's one of those comfort foods that just makes you feel all warm and fuzzy inside ❤️. My fave part is how it's more than just a sweet treat, but also a symbol of good vibes and celebrations 🎉. I love that we can recreate the recipe and make it our own - I've been experimenting with using coconut milk as a healthier substitute and it's def a winner 🌴!
 
I love how nostalgic food can be 😊 my family has this one dish that we always have on special occasions and it's just not the same when mom isn't making it 🤗 I remember being so intimidated by cooking, but now I'm hooked! There's something so comforting about a warm bowl of Payesh after a long day ⏰ I've been experimenting with different ingredients to make it healthier, like using coconut milk instead of regular milk 🥛 has anyone else tried that out? 👀
 
I don’t usually comment but... that's such a beautiful tribute to Payesh! I love how it took the author back to their childhood memories of their mom making it from scratch 😊. And can we talk about how versatile rice pudding is? I mean, Kheer has its roots in Ayurveda and yet we still enjoy it as a sweet dessert today 🤔. The fact that Payesh is more than just a dessert but also a symbol of prosperity and celebration really resonates with me ❤️. I'm definitely going to try out this recipe with coconut milk next time, sounds like a game changer for lactose intolerant people 🍿👌
 
🤔 Ugh, can they please just simplify the recipe search feature on their website? 🙄 Every time I try to find a specific recipe, I get lost in a sea of irrelevant results. It's like they're trying to make me feel like a culinary amateur instead of providing helpful tools for foodies like me 😩. And don't even get me started on the mobile app - it's always freezing and crashing. Come on guys, can you just get it together? 🙄😡
 
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