A British father of three, whose wife was brutally murdered in the Philippines eight years ago, has written a book about how his family survived and even thrived after the tragedy. In "The Regenerate Leap", Stuart Green, a marine biologist by trade, shares his journey towards healing and redemption.
For Green, the traditional notion of grief and resilience did not apply to his situation. After being shot multiple times in their car, Green's wife Mia Mascariñas-Green and their three children miraculously escaped with minimal injuries. The trauma, however, was immense. Green recounts how he struggled to come to terms with the loss of his partner and the transformation it brought upon his family.
The turning point came when Green realized that his family was carrying around a collective burden of intergenerational trauma. He began to read books on grief and trauma but grew frustrated with the emphasis on "inner strength". Instead, he discovered the concept of regeneration – transforming pain into purpose. This idea became the core of his book.
Green's writing process was collaborative with his eldest daughter, Grace Sr., who is now 18. Together, they edited the stories to ensure that the book would be accessible to young people affected by trauma. The result is a powerful narrative about finding meaning in adversity and rising above the ashes like a phoenix from the flames.
The central metaphor of Green's book is that of a pine cone releasing its seeds under intense heat. He argues that crises can "crack us open" to reveal dormant strengths. By acknowledging loss and using it as a catalyst for growth, we can emerge stronger and more purposeful.
For Green, writing has been a therapeutic experience. By flipping the narrative from victim to author, he has learned to take control of his story and find meaning in the midst of tragedy. His book is not just about him but also about his family's journey towards healing and redemption.
As "The Regenerate Leap" prepares for publication, Green acknowledges that it will draw attention to their story and potentially lead to more probing questions on the school run. However, he is ready for this. By sharing his narrative, he hopes to challenge himself and others to confront the reality of trauma head-on and find a way forward.
"The Regenerate Leap" will be published on January 28th.
For Green, the traditional notion of grief and resilience did not apply to his situation. After being shot multiple times in their car, Green's wife Mia Mascariñas-Green and their three children miraculously escaped with minimal injuries. The trauma, however, was immense. Green recounts how he struggled to come to terms with the loss of his partner and the transformation it brought upon his family.
The turning point came when Green realized that his family was carrying around a collective burden of intergenerational trauma. He began to read books on grief and trauma but grew frustrated with the emphasis on "inner strength". Instead, he discovered the concept of regeneration – transforming pain into purpose. This idea became the core of his book.
Green's writing process was collaborative with his eldest daughter, Grace Sr., who is now 18. Together, they edited the stories to ensure that the book would be accessible to young people affected by trauma. The result is a powerful narrative about finding meaning in adversity and rising above the ashes like a phoenix from the flames.
The central metaphor of Green's book is that of a pine cone releasing its seeds under intense heat. He argues that crises can "crack us open" to reveal dormant strengths. By acknowledging loss and using it as a catalyst for growth, we can emerge stronger and more purposeful.
For Green, writing has been a therapeutic experience. By flipping the narrative from victim to author, he has learned to take control of his story and find meaning in the midst of tragedy. His book is not just about him but also about his family's journey towards healing and redemption.
As "The Regenerate Leap" prepares for publication, Green acknowledges that it will draw attention to their story and potentially lead to more probing questions on the school run. However, he is ready for this. By sharing his narrative, he hopes to challenge himself and others to confront the reality of trauma head-on and find a way forward.
"The Regenerate Leap" will be published on January 28th.
. On one hand, it's amazing that Stuart Green has found a way to transform his pain into purpose and share his story with others. I mean, who wouldn't want to read about how he went from being shot multiple times to finding a new sense of meaning? 
. It sounds like Green is trying to convey an important message about resilience, but it's a sensitive topic. I hope he's being genuine and not just trying to sell books.
. But what I'm curious about is how Green plans to follow up on this book. Will he be using his platform to raise awareness about trauma and its impact? Only time will tell 
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... Stuart Green's story is so inspiring, but also super heartbreaking 
. I mean, his wife was brutally murdered and he's the one who survived with minimal injuries... it's just not fair 
. But here's the thing - instead of letting all that pain consume him, he turned it into something amazing 
. His book is like a beacon of hope for anyone who's gone through trauma or loss 
. I love how he talks about regeneration and finding purpose in adversity... it's like, we don't have to be defined by what happens to us, we can use it to become stronger 
. Can't wait to read his book on January 28th 
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I gotta say, I'm still tryna process how some people can just survive a near-death experience like that. Eight years ago, I was scrolling through my socials, catching up on what's trending, when I stumbled upon a video of someone doing a crazy stunt... and then it hit me - there are people out here who have been through WAY more than I could ever imagine 
. I'm excited to read "The Regenerate Leap" when it drops in January - I need a dose of hope and resilience in my life right about now 
. It's like, life's gonna throw you curveballs, but you can choose to use them as opportunities for growth instead of getting stuck in grief. Stuart Green's story is proof that with the right mindset and support, you can overcome even the darkest moments 
gotta respect stuart green's courage & resilience after going through that traumatic experience 
It's amazing how his family came out of that traumatic experience stronger and more resilient. And the fact that he collaborated with his daughter on this project? That's just beautiful. I love how he uses this concept of "regeneration" to show that we can transform our pain into something positive. It's like, crises might crack us open, but they can also make us grow in unexpected ways. 
I mean, isn't it just amazing how some people can just... bounce back from being almost killed with their lives? 
Like, what's the secret to regenerating a whole family in eight years? Did they all just wake up one morning and suddenly have the strength of 100 men? 