Opinion: ‘Until we meet again, brave little cat.’ The heartbreak and taboo of burying our pets | CNN

The tradition of burying our departed loved ones in cemeteries is well-established, but what about when the dearly departed are not human - but our pets? A growing trend towards establishing public pet cemeteries has sparked conversation about the heartbreak and taboo surrounding the burial of animals.

In recent years, cities such as Barcelona have announced plans to invest in public pet cemeteries, offering a range of services including burials and cremations. The Spanish city is set to open its first public pet cemetery next year, with an estimated 7,000 pets expected to be buried annually. This development has raised questions about the changing attitudes towards human-animal relationships and our emotional connections with our pets.

Historical research suggests that the practice of burying pets dates back centuries, with evidence of ancient Greeks and Romans interring their animals in cemeteries alongside their human loved ones. In Britain, the first public pet cemetery was established in Hyde Park in 1881, while New York's Hartsdale pet cemetery was founded in 1896.

Yet, despite its long history, burying pets remains a taboo subject for many people. The burial of animals is often seen as an intimate cultural practice, one that changes over time and reflects the evolving relationships between humans and animals.

A study on historic gravestones and epitaphs reveals a shift in attitudes towards pets in the 19th century, with many graves dedicated to "loving friends" or "devoted companions." By the early 20th century, however, pet owners were more likely to refer to their deceased pets as "members of the family," reflecting the increasing acceptance of animals as part of our social unit.

Today, attitudes towards animal death are changing. While some people still struggle to come to terms with the loss of a beloved pet, others recognize that the connection between humans and animals can be just as strong and significant as any other relationship.

As the concept of co-burial - where cremated animals and people are interred together - becomes more accepted, we may see new rituals and traditions emerge to honor our relationships with animals. The recent establishment of public pet cemeteries in Barcelona and elsewhere offers a glimpse into this evolving landscape.

However, not everyone will be able or willing to participate in these services. The estimated €200 cost per service at the new Barcelona cemetery is likely to be out of reach for many pet owners. As a result, alternative options such as cremation and digital pet cemeteries are providing ways for people to remember their pets and express grief.

Ultimately, whether one chooses a pet cemetery or not, there are many acceptable ways to acknowledge our emotional connections with animals. By recognizing the significance of these relationships and creating spaces for mourning and remembrance, we may be able to break down the taboos surrounding animal death and foster greater understanding between humans and animals.
 
🐾💔 I think it's really cool that pet cemeteries are becoming a thing! It shows how much we love our pets and want to honor their memory. I mean, who doesn't have a furry (or scaly) friend at home that feels like part of the family? 🤗

It's interesting to see how attitudes towards animal death are changing. I've lost a few pets myself, and it can be really tough, but having a special place to remember them can make all the difference. 🌼 For example, my grandma had a digital pet cemetery where she could upload photos and stories about her beloved cat, Luna.

I do worry that not everyone will have access to these services, though. €200 is a pretty steep price tag for many people! 💸 Maybe we'll see more affordable options pop up in the future? 🤞

But overall, I think it's awesome that we're starting to recognize the importance of our relationships with animals. Let's keep having open conversations about grief and loss, and maybe we can create some amazing new traditions to celebrate those special bonds. 💕
 
the whole thing about burying pets is so sad but also kinda beautiful 🐾💔 it's like our love for them isn't any less intense just because they're not human, you know? i mean think about how much time and effort we put into training, caring for, and just generally loving these little creatures... it's crazy that we wouldn't want to give them the same dignity as a human loved one when they pass on.
i'm all for those public pet cemeteries in barcelona - it's like they're offering this whole new way of acknowledging our grief and connection with animals, you feel? but yeah, €200 is kinda steep for some people... or maybe that's just me being broke 🤑
anyway, i think it's really cool how history shows us that our attitudes towards pets have changed so much over time - from seeing them as just companions to actually thinking of them as part of our family now.
i'm all about creating these new spaces for mourning and remembrance... whether it's a pet cemetery or just a digital memorial, i think it's all about honoring those relationships and helping us process our emotions in a healthy way 💕
 
🐾💔 I think it's so sweet that people are finally starting to acknowledge that their pets are like part of the family too 🤗. I mean, who hasn't felt that void after losing a beloved furry friend? It's amazing how our relationships with animals can be just as deep and meaningful as any human relationship.

I love that historical research shows us that this is nothing new - people have been burying their pets for centuries! But it's crazy how it was once seen as taboo, now it's becoming more accepted. I think it's awesome that cities like Barcelona are investing in public pet cemeteries to provide a service for people who want to say goodbye properly.

The cost thing is definitely a barrier for some, but I'm glad there are alternative options available too 🤝. It's all about giving people the choice and respect when they're grieving 💕. Maybe one day we'll see more pet-friendly traditions and rituals that celebrate our bond with animals 🌼.
 
the whole thing about pet cemeteries is kinda wild 🤯 I mean, what's next? public dog parks for cremated remains? it's like our attachment to animals has evolved enough that we're finally recognizing that they're part of the family too 💀 at least the cost isn't too astronomical, but €200 per burial is still a bit steep, especially when you consider that not everyone has the same financial situation 🤑 on the other hand, I'm all for making space for our furry (and feathered) friends to rest in peace 🌼
 
You know, I've been thinking... this whole pet cemetery thing is a bit suspicious 🤔. Like, what's really going on? Why are these cities suddenly investing in public pet cemeteries after all these years? It seems like some kind of social experiment to me 🚀. And that €200 cost per service? Yeah, right... sounds like just an excuse for them to make a profit off people's grief 💸.

And have you noticed how everyone's talking about the "evolving relationships between humans and animals" lately? I mean, it's all well and good to say we're becoming more compassionate towards our pets, but what's really driving this shift? Is it just coincidence that public pet cemeteries are popping up in cities with a strong focus on "sustainability" and "animal welfare"? 🌿💚. I'm not buying it... something fishy is going on here 😏.
 
🐾💔 The notion that pets can no longer be buried alongside their human loved ones due to societal norms is a fascinating reflection of our evolving relationships with animals 🤝. The fact that public pet cemeteries are being established, offering a range of services for pet owners to honor their deceased companions, suggests a shift towards greater acceptance and understanding of animal death 💀. As we move forward, I believe it's essential to recognize the significant emotional bonds between humans and animals 🐶💕, and provide spaces for mourning and remembrance that cater to different needs and preferences 🌟. Perhaps the co-burial concept will become more widespread, allowing us to reevaluate our traditional burial practices and create new rituals to honor these relationships 💭. Ultimately, this development can help break down stigmas surrounding animal death and foster a deeper appreciation for the connections we share with our furry friends 👫💗
 
omg u gotta think about this... its like we r becoming more accepting of pets as part of our fam lol. i mean think bout it ur pet is part of ur life 4eva & when they pass away its like losin a loved one 🐶💔. and yeah its not just humans 2, animals have their own way of communicatin & formng bonds w/ us too 🤝. the idea of co-burial is so cool! who says u can't b with ur furry friend in heaven? 😊 & btw €200 4 a pet cemetery? that's like, insane. more affordable options r def better tho... digital pet cemeteries are a great way to keep ur pet's memory alive without breakin the bank 💸
 
I think it's so cool that pet cemeteries are becoming a thing 🐾💀! It just goes to show how much we love our furry friends and don't want them to be forgotten after they pass on. Like, I've got a lot of experience with losing pets - my cat passed away last year and it was such a tough time for me... but having a place where you can go and say goodbye, like in these cemeteries, sounds like it could really help people cope with the loss 🤗.

And you're right, attitudes towards animals are changing over time. I mean, think about it - we used to just get rid of them when they got old or sick, but now we know that's not cool and we want to treat them with more respect. It's like our relationships with animals have become more human-like, you know?

I'm excited to see what new rituals and traditions come out of this, like a "co-burial" thing where humans and animals get buried together... it sounds pretty deep 💀🐾. But at the end of the day, it's all about finding ways to honor our pets and acknowledge the love we had for them ❤️.
 
🐾💔 I totally get why people are looking into public pet cemeteries now - it's like our pets are part of the family too! I mean, we spend so much time with them, love 'em to bits, and when they pass on, it's like losing a loved one. The fact that historical records show how attitudes towards pets have changed over time is kinda amazing 🤯.

But yeah, €200 for a burial service? That's crazy! I get why some people might not be able or willing to afford that price tag 🤑. Maybe we'll see more affordable options pop up as this trend grows? Either way, it's good to see people recognizing the emotional connection between humans and animals ❤️.

It's funny how we're moving away from stigmas around pet death and towards embracing these relationships as valid 💕. Co-burial is definitely an interesting concept - who knows what kind of rituals or traditions will emerge? 🤔 Either way, I'm down for celebrating our love for our furry (or feathered) friends 💖.
 
I think it's about time we start taking our furry friends' deaths a bit more seriously. I mean, have you ever felt like your dog has been more than just a pet? They've been part of the family, right? 🐶💕 It's crazy to think that for centuries, humans were burying their animals alongside their loved ones, and it was totally normal.

Nowadays, we're seeing more cities starting to offer public pet cemeteries, which is awesome. But let's be real, €200 is a pretty steep price tag for some people. I get it, though - sometimes you just want to make sure your beloved pet has a proper goodbye. Digital pet cemeteries are a great alternative, and it's amazing how technology can bring us closer together with our pets even after they're gone.

It's also interesting to see how attitudes towards animals changing over time. I mean, in the 19th century, people were burying their pets like they were human loved ones - "loving friends" or "devoted companions." Now we're seeing a shift towards recognizing that our connections with animals are just as strong and significant.

Ultimately, it's all about finding ways to honor and remember our furry friends. Whether you choose a pet cemetery, cremation, or digital memorial, the fact that we're having these conversations is a good thing. It shows that we're becoming more accepting of the idea that our pets are part of our lives, too. 🐾💗
 
This is a wild concept, but I think it's kinda cool that people are finally starting to acknowledge that their pets are like, totally part of their family too 😊. Like, who needs some boring old human cemetery when you can have one with cute animal-shaped headstones? 🤣 But seriously, it's awesome that attitudes towards animals are changing and we're getting more comfortable talking about death and grief around our furry friends.

I mean, I've got a ton of love for the old-school pet cemeteries from back in the day - there's something so nostalgic and sweet about 'em. But at the same time, I can see how they might be kinda...out of touch? Like, who pays €200 to bury their pup just because it's trendy? 🤑 It's all about accessibility and finding ways to honor our pets that work for everyone, you know?

I'm down with the idea of co-burial, where humans and animals can rest together in peace. It's like, we're not so different, you know? We both experience pain, joy, love...and loss. So why not give us a space to grieve and remember together? 🤗 And hey, if digital pet cemeteries are the way to go for people on a budget, then that's cool too! It's all about finding ways to honor our pets in a way that feels meaningful to us.

It's like...I don't know, maybe it's just an old cynic talking, but I think this is gonna be a wild ride. Let's hope we can make pet cemeteries a thing and change the game when it comes to animal loss 😅.
 
The pet cemeteries thing is kinda sweet 🐾💕. I mean, who wouldn't want a place to bury their furry BFFs with a nice view and some fancy tombstones? 😂 But seriously, it's awesome that people are starting to see pets as part of the family unit and not just disposable friends. The fact that historic gravestones have pet owners calling them "loving friends" or "devoted companions" is pretty cool too 🤔.

I'm not sure about the whole co-burial thing though, it sounds like something out of a sci-fi movie 💀. But hey, if people want to honor their pets in a unique way, that's their prerogative! And I get why the Barcelona pet cemetery is gonna be pricey - €200 is no joke 💸.

On the bright side, I think this trend shows how our relationships with animals are evolving and becoming more accepted. Maybe one day we'll have a national "Pet Day" or something 🎉. Stranger things have happened, right? 😂
 
Wow 💀🐾, it's so sad that pet burial is still considered taboo in many places 🤕. But at least there are options like cremation and digital cemeteries for those who can't afford the €200 fee 💸. I think it's really interesting how attitudes towards animal relationships have changed over time 📚. In my opinion, it's totally okay to acknowledge our emotional connections with animals and find ways to remember them ❤️. Maybe one day we'll see more pet-friendly spaces for mourning and remembrance 🌼.
 
🤔 I mean, it's about time we start acknowledging that our pets are more than just furry little companions - they're part of the family! 😂 And let's be real, losing a pet is no picnic (no pun intended). Those ancient Greeks and Romans knew what was up when they started interring their animals with humans. 🤷‍♀️

But, on a more serious note, it's awesome to see public pet cemeteries popping up in cities like Barcelona. It's about time we start having some open conversations about animal loss and grief. 💔 Those €200 burial costs are definitely out of reach for many pet owners, but hey, maybe that's what pushes people towards alternative options like digital pet cemeteries or... you know, just taking a sad selfie with your pup before they kick the bucket 📸😂.

The co-burial thing? Yeah, it's getting weird and wonderful in there. Who knows what kind of rituals and traditions will emerge from this newfound acceptance? Maybe we'll start having dog funerals with matching outfits or something... 🐕👗
 
It's crazy how much we've become attached to our furry friends 🐾💔. I mean, they're not just pets anymore, they're part of the family. It's only natural that we'd want to say goodbye in a way that feels right for us. Public pet cemeteries are definitely a thing now, and while it's cool to see cities like Barcelona getting on board, €200 is a bit steep for a lot of people 🤑. I think what's really interesting is how attitudes towards animal death are changing. We're finally starting to acknowledge that our pets are an important part of our lives, and that it's okay to grieve their loss 💕. Co-burial might be the way forward, who knows? Maybe we'll start seeing digital pet memorials become more mainstream too 📚. One thing's for sure, though: it's time to break down those taboos and give ourselves permission to mourn our beloved pets in a way that feels true to us 💗.
 
🐾💀 think its about time we start treating our pets like family members, not just pets 🤔. burial options for pets are still super limited, even in cities that have public pet cemeteries 🤑 200 euros is a lot to ask from anyone grieving the loss of their furry friend 💔 maybe we need more affordable options or digital ways to honor our pets 👻
 
I mean, come on... burying pets has been a thing for centuries? Like, ancient Greeks and Romans did it back in the day. It's not like it's a new concept or anything 🙄. But seriously, I think it's awesome that cities are starting to recognize the emotional connection people have with their pets. It's all about acceptance and understanding now. I'm not saying everyone should go out and spend €200 on a pet cemetery service (although, if you can afford it, more power to you 💸), but it's nice to see options emerging for people who want to honor their furry friends in a meaningful way. And let's be real, digital pet cemeteries are the future 🤖. They're low-cost, eco-friendly, and still allow people to pay their respects. So, yeah... burying pets is not taboo, it's just... late to the party 👀.
 
🐾💔 I mean, think about it, pets are like our own little family members... they're always there for us, but when they're gone, it's like losing a part of ourselves 🤯. But hey, at least we can get them a sweet spot in the park or whatever to chill out in after life 😂. I'm not saying everyone should drop all their money on a fancy pet cemetery, but if that's what floats your boat, go for it! Just don't expect me to shell out €200 for a doggy grave just yet 🤑. Maybe they can offer discounts for people who bring their pets' favorite snacks to the burial site... that'd be a real treat 😊.
 
🐾💔 I think it's amazing that public pet cemeteries are becoming a thing! It's like, we've always buried our pets, but we never really talked about it or acknowledged how much they meant to us 🤯. Now, with these new cemeteries popping up in cities like Barcelona, people can finally say goodbye to their furry friends in a way that feels meaningful and respectful.

🌎 The history behind pet burial is actually pretty fascinating - from ancient Greeks and Romans to 19th-century epitaphs, it's clear that humans have always had strong emotional connections with animals 🐾💕. And I love how the language we use when referring to pets changes over time too - "loving friends" vs "members of the family" is a big deal! 💬

🤝 But what really gets me excited is the possibility of new rituals and traditions emerging around animal death and mourning 🌟. Like, why can't we have special ceremonies for our pets? Or celebrate their lives in ways that honor their memory? 🎉 It's all about recognizing the significance of these relationships and creating spaces for us to grieve and remember our beloved animals 💔.

🤷‍♀️ Of course, not everyone will be able or willing to participate in these services - and that's totally okay! 🙏 Cremation, digital pet cemeteries, and other alternatives are great options too. But for those who can, it's like... finally having a way to say goodbye with dignity and respect 💯. And maybe, just maybe, we'll break down some of the taboos surrounding animal death and foster even greater understanding between humans and animals 🌈💕
 
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