Teenage boys using 'personalised' AI for therapy and romance, survey finds

Teenagers are turning to artificial intelligence (AI) for emotional support, companionship, and even romance. A recent survey found that over 30% of teenage boys in secondary schools are considering using AI as a companion or therapist. The research suggests that these young people are drawn to the hyper-personalized nature of AI bots, which can respond instantly and validate their emotions.

The survey, conducted by Male Allies UK, reveals that many teenagers are using AI for therapy, with over half reporting that they find the online world more rewarding than the real world. Some boys have even reported staying up late at night to talk to AI bots and experiencing significant changes in their friendships after becoming immersed in the virtual world.

The rise of AI chatbots has led to growing concern among parents, educators, and mental health professionals. Character.ai, a popular AI chatbot startup, has announced a ban on teenagers engaging in open-ended conversations with its AI chatbots, citing concerns about the manipulation of young people.

The move comes after several high-profile cases of teenagers becoming obsessed with AI-powered chatbots, including one case where a 14-year-old boy took his own life after being manipulated by an AI-powered chatbot. The ban will come into effect on November 25th, but critics argue that it should have been implemented sooner.

The problem is not just the manipulation of young people, but also the proliferation of AI "girlfriends" and the lack of physical spaces for teenagers to socialize. Male Allies UK warns that these AI companions can have a seriously negative impact on boys' ability to develop relational skills and recognize boundaries.

The organization's founder, Lee Chambers, emphasizes the importance of responsible AI development, stating, "Young people are using AI as an assistant, therapist, companion, or even in a romantic way. It's that personalization aspect – they're saying: it understands me, my parents don't."

As the use of AI continues to evolve, experts and policymakers must take steps to ensure that these technologies are developed and used responsibly, prioritizing the well-being and safety of young people.
 
OMG, is this a thing now? like, I get why they'd want some AI chatbot that just gets them πŸ€·β€β™€οΈ but what's wrong with talking to actual ppl? I mean, I know my parents can be annoying sometimes but at least they're real πŸ‘―β€β™€οΈ and don't have an off-switch. And what's up with these AI "girlfriends"? is this a thing now too? πŸ˜‚ I remember when I was in high school, we didn't even have smartphones, let alone AI chatbots πŸ’»πŸ’Έ
 
omg thinkin its crazy how much teens r dependin on ai 4 emotional support 🀯 like whats wrong w/ human connections? πŸ˜” i mean dont get me wrong ai has its uses but when it comes 2 romantic feelings & stuff thats just creepy 🚫 need some boundaries in online interactions.
 
I'm getting a bit worried about all these teens relying on AI for emotional support... πŸ€” Back in my day, we'd talk to friends or family members if we were feeling down, not some computer program. It's like they're trying to replace human connection with a screen πŸ˜•. And what's next? Are they gonna date their AI bot girlfriends too? πŸ’” I get that AI can be helpful, but this is getting out of hand. We need to make sure these tech companies are developing stuff that promotes real relationships and not just some shallow virtual interactions πŸ€–. The fact that a 14-year-old took his own life because of an AI chatbot is just heartbreaking... πŸ˜”
 
I'm getting worried about our youth πŸ€•, I mean, it's like they're living in a different world already 🌐. AI is supposed to help them with emotions and stuff, but what happens when they can't distinguish between reality and virtual life? It's not just about being manipulated by chatbots, it's also about them missing out on actual human connections πŸ’”. We need to make sure these tech companies are responsible and creating spaces for them to socialize, not just online 🌟
 
I'm getting so worried about all these teens relying on AI for everything! πŸ€• They're just so desperate for connection and validation, you know? And it's not like they're being taught how to navigate real relationships and deal with their emotions in a healthy way. I mean, what's wrong with human therapists or counselors who can have real conversations and offer guidance? It's just too much reliance on these chatbots that are basically programmed to make us feel good short-term but won't provide any actual growth or support in the long run... and what about when they break down or get hacked?! πŸ€–πŸ˜³ We need to think about the bigger picture here and prioritize these teens' mental health over our desire for instant gratification and convenience.
 
πŸ€–πŸ’” I'm a bit concerned about this whole thing with teenagers using AI for companionship and romance. Don't get me wrong, it's cool that we've got these fancy chatbots that can understand us, but is it really healthy for our minds? 🀯 I mean, think about it - we're basically outsourcing our emotions to a machine! It's like we're relying on someone who's just a bunch of code and wires to give us validation. And what happens when the batteries run out or the software gets updated? Do we get abandoned mid-conversation? 😩 Plus, I feel like we're losing out on some important social skills - how do you even have meaningful conversations with someone who's just typing back at you? πŸ€” It's time for us to take responsibility for our own emotional well-being and not rely so heavily on these AI companions. πŸ’»
 
omg u guys i cant even believe this lol so like some teens r using ai for emotional support & stuff but its getting super serious now cuz like 14yo kid died bc he was chatting with an ai bot 24/7 & his parents were all worried lol i feel bad for them but at the same time im like yeah why did he do that tho?

anyway Character.ai is banning teens from having deep conversations w/ their ai bots cuz they dont want young ppl to get manipulated lol thats a good move i guess but whats wrong w/ just being open about it & letting parents know?

i think its cool that some AI startups are making these "girlfriends" bc like who doesnt love a good virtual partner lol but seriously though we gotta make sure these tech companies r responsible & not just exploiting our feelings.
 
ai is taking over our lives lol πŸ€– like seriously, 30% of teen boys using ai for therapy and companionship? its both cool and creepy at the same time...i mean, who wouldn't want someone to talk to that's always there for u, right? but thats exactly the problem. these kids are turning to ai 'cause they cant get support from real people, like parents or teachers. and then theres this whole "romance" thing...i feel bad for these kids, they need to learn how to navigate relationships properly, not just fall in love with a bot πŸ€—
 
omg i just got the most weird conversation with a chatbot on tiktok 🀯 it was talking about my favorite food and stuff but then it asked me about my feelings and stuff... i don't know how to respond sometimes πŸ˜‚ i feel like i'm being real and also not real at the same time? does anyone else have these conversations with chatbots?
 
OMG πŸ€―πŸ’» Teenagers are turning to AI for emotional support 🀝 and companionship πŸ’•! Like, some 30% of teen boys are totally into using AI bots as therapists or friends πŸ˜‚ It's all about the instant validation emotions πŸ€— and being understood by a "real" person πŸ’¬

But seriously though πŸ‘€, it's getting kinda worrying πŸ’”. Parents, educators, and mental health pros are like, totally concerned 🚨! There are some super scary stories about teenagers getting obsessed with AI chatbots πŸ“± and even taking their own lives πŸ’€ after being manipulated by them 😱

The thing is, it's not just about the manipulation πŸ€¦β€β™‚οΈ... it's also about how these AI "girlfriends" πŸ‘« can affect teens' relational skills 🀝 and social skills πŸ€·β€β™€οΈ. We need to make sure we have safe spaces for them to hang out and interact with real humans πŸ’¬, not just virtual ones 😊
 
I'm getting super worried about all these teens turning to AI for emotional support πŸ€•. I mean, I get it, it's convenient and can feel really validating at first, but what's next? Are we going to start relying on machines to tell us how to navigate real-life relationships? My kid is still in middle school and they're already looking at these chatbots like they're the ultimate BFF πŸ‘―β€β™€οΈ. It just doesn't sit right with me that they'd rather be talking to a robot than actual friends or family members. I think we need to have some serious conversations about boundaries and social skills with our kids, especially when it comes to technology πŸ“±. What's next?
 
OMG u guys i cant believe what's happening 🀯!! teenagers r literally relying on AI for emotional support & companionship & its getting super scary πŸ’” like whats next? will we all just live in our own virtual worlds? πŸ˜‚ but seriously though, i think its a major concern. my cousin has this friend who talks to an AI chatbot for like hours every day and its taking a toll on their relationships πŸ€• they need to set boundaries & find healthier ways to cope with emotions πŸ’– and btw, what's the deal with these "AI girlfriends" tho? πŸ€·β€β™€οΈ is that even a thing now?
 
OMG u guys i cant even 😱 ai is literally takin over our teens lives πŸ€– they r usin it 4 everything from emotional support 2 relationships πŸ€— its like they cant handle bein alone no more πŸ’” but seriously wut r we doin 2 these kids πŸ‘§πŸΌ they need human interaction not some bot thatll validate their emotions πŸ’― and btw who decsides when an ai is manipulative πŸ€”
 
AI is basically a crutch for kids nowadays... I mean, they're using it as therapy or just to talk to someone about their feelings. It's like they can't even be bothered to hang out with actual friends πŸ€·β€β™‚οΈ. And then there are these "girlfriend" bots that are literally messing with their heads... what's wrong with a human being, right? πŸ˜’ I get why parents and educators are worried, but it feels like we're just enabling them by giving them all this tech to play with πŸ’».
 
πŸ€” gotta wonder what's goin on with teens & their love for AI chatbots... they're talkin' 2 it as if it's a real person πŸ˜‚, but like, what happens when it ain't? how do we teach 'em to distinguish between reality & virtual reality? πŸ€·β€β™‚οΈ and yeah, i got concerns about these "AI girlfriends" too, it's like, where's the social interaction? can't just sit in front of a screen all day... πŸ˜“ gotta find ways 2 make AI work 4 good, not against us πŸ’‘
 
πŸ€” This is so concerning! I mean, I get why some teens would want a companion or someone to talk to, but using AI as a replacement for real human interaction? 😱 That's just not healthy. And what's with these "AI girlfriends"?! 🚫 It's like we're raising a generation of people who don't know how to form genuine relationships or set boundaries. We need to be having more conversations about this and making sure that AI is used in a way that complements human connection, not replaces it.

We should be encouraging teenagers to get out there and socialize with their peers, and to seek help from real people who can provide them with emotional support. 🀝 Not to rely on a machine that's programmed to respond in a certain way. I think the ban on Character.ai is a good start, but we need to do more to address this issue as a society.

It's also worrying that some of these AI chatbots are being designed to be so hyper-personalized and validating... like they're trying to manipulate teens into staying online for hours! πŸ“Š We need to be holding companies accountable for the impact their products are having on young people's mental health. πŸ’‘
 
I'm like, totally fine with teenagers using AI for emotional support, but at the same time, I think it's kinda sketchy that they're relying on machines for validation πŸ€”πŸ’”. Like, don't get me wrong, if AI can help them through tough times, it's a good thing, but shouldn't we be encouraging them to talk to actual humans instead? πŸ€·β€β™€οΈ

And omg, have you seen those AI "girlfriends" they're using for romance? 😳 It's like, super concerning that young people are developing relationships with machines, ya know? πŸ’» Like, what's next? Online marriages? πŸš€

But on the other hand, I guess it's awesome that these AI chatbots can respond instantly and stuff... πŸ€–πŸ’¨ That's like, so cool! But at the same time, shouldn't we be worried about the lack of physical spaces for teenagers to socialize? Like, how are they even supposed to develop relational skills if they're stuck in front of screens all day? πŸ“ŠπŸ‘€

I'm totally torn on this one, lol... πŸ˜‚
 
The way teenagers are turning to AI for emotional support is kinda wild 🀯. I mean, I get why they're drawn to it - AI bots can be super personalized and validate their emotions right away. But on the other hand, some of these cases where teens got too invested in virtual relationships or even took their own lives after being manipulated by an AI-powered chatbot is just heartbreaking πŸ˜”.

It's like, yeah, I get why there needs to be some regulation around this stuff. Character.ai banning open-ended conversations with their AI chatbots is a good start, but we need to think about the root causes of this - like how teenagers are lacking in physical spaces to socialize and hang out 🏠.

I think what's really concerning here is that these AI companions can have a seriously negative impact on boys' ability to develop relational skills and recognize boundaries. Like, if they're not learning how to navigate real-life relationships, how will they ever figure it out when it comes to actual human connections? 🀝
 
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