Tell us: do you live in a multigenerational house share?

A new study from SpareRoom has revealed that nearly four in ten flatmates now cohabitate with family members, creating multigenerational households where age gaps span 20 years or more.

For many, living with housemates who are significantly older or younger can be a unique experience. Some people have reported enjoying the dynamic and learning opportunities that come with sharing a space with people from different life stages.

However, others have expressed difficulties in navigating generational differences in household chores, communication styles, and expectations for personal space.

The age gap between housemates is likely to impact living arrangements in various ways. For instance, younger adults may view the older generation as more set in their ways, while older individuals might perceive their younger counterparts as being too tech-savvy or reckless with finances.

Despite potential challenges, some respondents have reported that the benefits of multigenerational household sharing far outweigh the drawbacks. They cite increased sense of responsibility and a greater appreciation for family members' life experiences.

SpareRoom's data suggests that living arrangements are becoming more fluid, with younger adults embracing the flexibility and diversity that comes with cohabiting with people from different age groups. As one participant noted, "Living in a multigenerational household has taught me patience, empathy, and the importance of respecting individual differences."
 
I'm low-key loving this trend ๐Ÿคฉ! Having family members as flatmates can be super beneficial for everyone involved. I mean, think about it - you're not just getting a partner in crime, but also a built-in mentor, coach, or even therapist ๐Ÿ˜‚. With the changing nature of work and life, more people are open to exploring non-traditional living arrangements that suit their needs. And let's be real, who doesn't need some extra adult supervision (just kidding... sorta)? Seriously though, this shift towards multigenerational households is all about flexibility and acceptance. It's awesome to see people embracing the diversity of life experiences and learning from each other ๐ŸŒŽ๐Ÿ’ก
 
I gotta say ๐Ÿค”, this trend is kinda awesome! I mean, who says you can't have a good time with your grandma or a younger sibling? The fact that people are open to living together across different age gaps shows us that we're more adaptable than we think ๐ŸŒŽ. Of course, it's not all rainbows and unicorns - there'll be some growing pains (literally!), but it sounds like the benefits far outweigh the drawbacks for most folks ๐Ÿ™. Like I said in a thread last week, why not get to know people from different walks of life? You might just learn something new about yourself ๐Ÿ˜Š.
 
๐Ÿค I mean, think about it... living with family members can be super interesting! You learn so much from each other's perspectives ๐Ÿค“. But at the same time, it can get tricky when you're all on different life cycles โฐ. Like, my younger cousin is always trying to get me to play video games with her, but I'm more of a chill vibe kinda guy ๐Ÿ˜Ž. Still, I think the benefits far outweigh the challenges. It's great that we're becoming more open-minded about living arrangements ๐ŸŒˆ. And hey, if it teaches us patience and empathy like one respondent said... well, that's definitely worth something ๐Ÿ’–!
 
๐Ÿค” living with family members can be weirdly awesome ๐Ÿ˜Š
imagine having your grandparents or aunties around and they teach you how to cook or garden ๐Ÿฒ๐ŸŒฑ
but at same time, it can also be super frustrating when u gotta do all the chores and they dont wanna lift a finger ๐Ÿคฆโ€โ™€๏ธ
i mean, i love my parents but sometimes they just dont get it ๐Ÿ’โ€โ™€๏ธ
like, why cant they understand that i need some me time to watch Netflix ๐Ÿ“บ๐Ÿ‘€
anywayz, its cool that people are embracing this new norm of living with different age groups ๐Ÿ‘ซ
it teaches u so much about respect and patience ๐Ÿ˜Š
 
๐Ÿค” multigenerational households r actually not bad...think its cool that ppl are open to sharin spaces w/ fam members from diff life stages. but gotta acknowledge the challenges too ๐Ÿ™„ like diff communication styles & expectancies 4 personal space. still, i think its awesome 2 learn frm each other & grow together ๐Ÿ‘
 
I think this trend is gonna be HUGE for the future of housing. I mean, we're already seeing it in my friend's fam where his aunt lives with him and he's 25. She's 50! It's crazy how they make it work. Like, she does all the cooking and he handles the bills. It's like they have their own little system. Anyway, I think it's dope that people are redefining what a "housemate" looks like. It's not just about finding someone to split the rent with anymore. It's about building relationships and learning from each other's perspectives ๐Ÿค
 
lol what's next? 20 yrs olds sharing their pad w/ grannies?! sounds like a recipe for disaster tbh ๐Ÿคฃ some ppl gotta have their own space n all. but at the same time, I can see how it could be beneficial 4 those who need help or just wanna learn from others. esp w/ tech skills ๐Ÿ˜‚, someone's gotta show these old folks how 2 navigate TikTok!
 
I'm not sure I buy into this trend of multigenerational households ๐Ÿค”. It's just another example of how technology is making it easier for people to delay adulthood, you know? Everyone's just stalling on getting married and having kids, so now they're just moving back in with their parents or grandparents instead...

And don't even get me started on the logistics of household chores ๐Ÿšฎ. Who's going to do the laundry when everyone's too busy playing video games and watching Netflix? I mean, I've lived with friends before, but at least we all had our own stuff and didn't expect each other to do everything for us...

I guess it's nice that people are learning some patience and empathy from living with older folks ๐Ÿ™, but is it really worth the hassle? I'll stick to my solo apartment, thank you very much ๐Ÿ˜Š.
 
I wonder what's behind this trend? Is it because younger people are more open to new experiences or is it just easier for them to find family members who can move in together? I've got a cousin who lives with his 80-year-old grandma and they're actually really close, but I've also seen it where there's like, a huge age gap and it's super awkward. And what about the space thing? Like, how do you make sure everyone has enough room to chill without feeling all over each other's space? My friend lived with her 20-year-old sister-in-law and they had some major disagreements about cleanliness and stuff ๐Ÿค”
 
I'm not sure I'd want to live with my grandparents lol ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ . Just kidding! Sorta. But seriously, I think it's cool that people are exploring this option. Growing up in a multigenerational household can be super valuable. You get to learn from everyone's life experiences and perspectives. And I can imagine it's not always easy, but the benefits sound worth it - increased sense of responsibility, etc. ๐Ÿค. Plus, it's like living with different friends... from different ages! ๐Ÿ˜†
 
๐Ÿค I totally get why some ppl might be into living w/ fam members, esp if they're young adults lookin for a more chill lifestyle ๐Ÿ ๐Ÿ’†โ€โ™€๏ธ. But at the same time, I can imagine how frustrating it must be when u gotta navigate all these generational differences in household chores and communication styles ๐Ÿคฆโ€โ™€๏ธ๐Ÿ’ฌ.

I drew a simple diagram to illustrate what's goin on: `+---+`
| |
| Younger Adults |
| (tech-savvy, |
| flexible w/ finances)|
| |
| Older Gen |
| (more set in their ways) |
| |
| Family Ties |
| (shared space, |
| increased sense of responsibility) |

For me, it's all about findin' that sweet spot where u respect each other's differences and still manage to create a harmonious household ๐Ÿ ๐Ÿ’•. Maybe it's not for everyone, but I think it's dope when ppl come together and make it work ๐Ÿ’ช
 
๐Ÿค” living with family members can be super weird but also kinda cool? i mean, my aunt and uncle have been living together since my grandma passed away ๐Ÿ ๐Ÿ˜ข and it's actually helped them both find new purpose in life. they're always trying to teach me how to cook and fix things around the house lol. but seriously, it's not all rainbows... sometimes you gotta navigate some pretty big generational differences ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ‘ต๐Ÿ•บ. like, my aunt is super old school and thinks we should still use payphones ๐Ÿ“ž๐Ÿ˜‚. i guess that's just part of the fun? ๐Ÿ’โ€โ™€๏ธ
 
I gotta say, it's crazy how living arrangements have changed over the years... I mean, back in my day ๐Ÿคฏ we just had our parents move out and start their own place, no big deal! But now, like 40% of flatmates are living with family members? That's wild. I can see why some people would appreciate the extra help around the house, but others might get frustrated with all the generational differences. Like, remember when I was a teenager and my parents were still in their 50s? Now I've got friends who are like, totally different generations from me... it's interesting to learn about each other's perspectives, though. I think it's cool that people are embracing this multigenerational thing, even if it means navigating some awkward conversations ๐Ÿค.
 
I was just reading about how avocado toast is so overrated ๐Ÿคฃ anyway, this multigenerational thing sounds kinda cool I mean who needs a big house with nothing but empty space when you can have someone to hang out with from different walks of life? my aunt and uncle live with their kids and it's pretty awesome... they have these epic dinner parties where everyone brings a dish and it's like one big happy family!
 
๐Ÿค I think it's awesome that more ppl are open to living w/ fam members as housemates! It can be super interesting to learn from each other & grow together. Some ppl might find it tough at 1st, but if they're willing to communicate & compromise, it can lead to some amazing experiences. I've got a friend who lives w/ her MIL (50s) & her younger sis (20s), and they always have the best laughs & conversations about everything from music to life goals! ๐ŸŽ‰
 
idk if its a good or bad thing... on one hand, having family members living together can be super helpful and save money ๐Ÿคทโ€โ™‚๏ธ but then again, its like, super weird to have your mom or dad living next door... also i kinda feel like it would be hard to maintain boundaries with someone who's so much older than you... but at the same time, having people from different generations together can bring a whole new level of understanding and respect ๐Ÿค and isnt that what family is all about?
 
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