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A Bittersweet Conundrum: Cryonic Preservation and the Pursuit of Love

In China, a peculiar case has garnered international attention, leaving many to ponder the complexities of human emotions, social norms, and the limits of scientific progress. Gui Junmin, a 62-year-old man from Jinan, had his wife Zhan Wenlian cryogenically preserved in 2017 after she died of lung cancer. The unprecedented procedure was paid for by a science research institute that agreed to preserve her body for 30 years.

Zhan's consent before passing away is reported, raising questions about the ethics and motivations behind Gui's actions. What has sparked controversy is the revelation that Gui began dating again in 2020, partnering with Wang Chunxia. The relationship appears "utilitarian," and Gui attributes its existence to his health issues following a severe gout attack. This arrangement has raised concerns among those who believe it's unfair to both women.

The story serves as a poignant reminder of the human inability to let go. For Gui, cryonic preservation was an attempt to defy death, with Zhan frozen in time. Although the procedure may have been a personal choice, its implications for his love life and social standing are ambiguous. The relationship with Wang Chunxia raises questions about respect, loyalty, and the emotional complexity of the situation.

The world's major cryonics labs were established by individuals seeking to preserve their loved ones, highlighting the emotional underpinnings behind these advancements in science. While the prospect of revival may hold promise for some, the reality is that death remains an irreversible endpoint. This case underscores the need to approach cryonic preservation and its consequences with caution and empathy.

Ultimately, Gui's story serves as a somber reminder of the challenges we face when navigating human relationships and the limitations of scientific innovation. As we grapple with these issues, it's essential to prioritize compassion and understanding, acknowledging that no solution can fully bridge the gaps between love, loss, and our mortality.
 
I'm totally puzzled by Gui Junmin's situation πŸ€”... his wife was cryogenically preserved after passing away but he starts dating again 3 years later? πŸ™…β€β™‚οΈ What's the deal with that? Is it really just about him getting back to life or is there more to it than that? And what does this say about Zhan's wishes if she had consented to be frozen in the first place?

It also makes me wonder, can people ever truly move on from someone who's been taken away by death? I mean, Gui's started dating again but it seems utilitarian and not really with love ❀️. How does he feel about Wang Chunxia compared to Zhan? And what are the implications for his health issues that made him want a partner in the first place?

I'm also curious about the science behind cryonic preservation - is it even possible to revive someone after 30 years? πŸ€– And if so, would they be the same person or would it be some kind of new life? The world needs more conversations like this! πŸ’¬
 
man... what a mess 🀯 Gui's actions are like something outta a bad rom-com - "I'll just freeze my ex-wife in cryonic preservation and then move on with my life" πŸ™„ sounds like a solid plan for a toxic guy, you know? but seriously, it's wild that he's trying to justify his new relationship by saying he needs someone to take care of him... like that's gonna fly, dude πŸ€¦β€β™‚οΈ people see right through that. and can we talk about how weird it is that this story is even possible? I mean, what's next, cryonic preservation for our pets too? πŸΆπŸ’€
 
πŸ€” I mean, come on, cryonic preservation is just so... messy. Like, Gui Junmin pays for his wife's body to be frozen in time, but then he goes ahead and starts dating again? It's like, what even is the point of that? πŸ™„ And don't even get me started on how Wang Chunxia feels about it - I'm no expert or anything, but it seems kinda weird that she's just rolling with it. πŸ˜’ Like, wouldn't she want some kind of explanation or closure after her friend is frozen for 30 years?

And have you seen the timeline here? 2017 - Gui pays for Zhan to be cryogenically preserved, and then he starts dating Wang Chunxia in 2020? That's like, a whole three years. I mean, what was going on in between? πŸ€·β€β™€οΈ Did they just forget about each other or something?

I don't know, man - this whole situation just feels kinda shady to me. Like, is Gui trying to outrun his grief by dating again? Or is he really just hoping that Zhan will somehow magically come back to life? Either way, it's all pretty messed up in my book πŸ€¦β€β™‚οΈ
 
I dont think its right that gui is using zhan as a way to get over his current heartbreak πŸ˜”, but at the same time i kinda understand why he'd wanna hold onto memories of her in some way... cryonic preservation can be seen as a way to keep love alive even after someone's gone πŸ’”. its a tough one because we all need to move on eventually, but guis feelings for zhan are still valid, even if they're not necessarily romantic anymore πŸ€·β€β™‚οΈ
 
I'm still thinking about this case and how Gui Junmin's situation is like a never-ending loop πŸ”„. I mean, he was already grieving the loss of his wife, but then he goes and freezes her in time, like he's trying to hold onto memories and avoid the pain of moving on πŸ’”. And now, he's dating again? It feels like he's just running from his emotions instead of facing them head-on 🀯.

And what really gets me is that people are judging him for it. Like, who are we to say whether his feelings are valid or not? We can't even begin to understand the complexities of his situation, and yet we're already making assumptions about his motivations πŸ˜’. I think we need to take a step back and try to see things from Gui's perspective, rather than just trying to fit him into our own narratives 🀝.

I also find it interesting that people are bringing up the idea of "respect" and "loyalty". But what does that even mean in this situation? Is Gui being disloyal to his wife by moving on with his life? Or is he just trying to honor her memory in his own way πŸ’€? It's a tough question, but I think we need to keep exploring it rather than just passing judgment πŸ€”.
 
I mean... think about this for a sec... Gui Junmin preserving his wife's body, 30 years in the freezer... what does that even say about us as humans? We're always trying to hold onto something, someone, anything that can bring us comfort in the face of death... but at what cost? And then he goes and dates again, using her frozen body as a sort of emotional crutch... it's like, is this really living, or is it just existing? πŸ€”
 
I just can't even right now 🀯... Gui Junmin's situation is literally so messed up πŸ’”. He basically freezes his wife away for decades, thinking he'll revive her when he's feeling better after a gout attack πŸ€•... like, what kind of love is that? 😩 And then he goes and dates someone new?! It's just so hurtful to Zhan Wenlian's memory and her family πŸ’€. I feel like Gui needs to have a long talk with his therapist about why he thought this was a good idea πŸ€·β€β™€οΈ... it's not about love, it's about selfishness and disrespecting the dead 🚫. And what really gets me is that people are gonna try to justify this as some kind of "utilitarian" relationship arrangement πŸ’Ό... like, no way, Jose! This is just a cry for help (pun intended) πŸŒͺ️. Anyway, it's a harsh reminder of how we need to approach these things with empathy and compassion ❀️.
 
It's wild to think about someone keeping their late wife frozen in time while getting back out there, you know? I mean, I'm all for people doing what feels right to them, but this guy's got some serious emotional baggage πŸ’”. And can we even talk about the fact that his new girlfriend is literally being used as a way to cope with his health issues? It's like, respectful or not, it still feels kinda exploitative πŸ€·β€β™‚οΈ. On one hand, I get why he'd want to hold on to his memories of Zhan, but on the other, isn't that just prolonging the pain? πŸ’€
 
omg u wont blv wht's goin on in china rn 😱 a guy cryopreserved his wife 8 yrs ago but now he's like "oh i gotta date again" πŸ€¦β€β™‚οΈ w/ this new chick he says its 4 health reasons lol meanwhile ppl r dyin over here cuz of lung cancer and we got this dude makin moves on the side πŸ’” it's just so messed up...can't help but wonder what kinda messed up person would do this πŸ™…β€β™‚οΈ
 
I don't think Gui Junmin did his wife Zhan Wenlian any favors by putting her in a cryonic preservation pod... πŸ€” I mean, think about it - she's not really "alive" anymore, so what exactly is he hoping to achieve with this? And yeah, dating again so soon after losing someone... that's just insensitive. Wang Chunxia seems like the more deserving partner, if you ask me 😐
 
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