The man who froze his wife and got a new girlfriend: a stranger, sadder tale than I expected | Imogen West-Knights

The Bittersweet Tale of a Cryogenically Frozen Husband and His New Partner

In the murky waters of internet discourse, one subreddit stands out as a peculiar haven for the curious and the nosy - Am I the Asshole?. This week, it's a Chinese social media user who has brought to our attention a complex and thought-provoking tale that has left many pondering the ethics of cryogenics and the human heart.

Gui Junmin, a man from Jinan, east China, in 2017 made headlines by becoming one of the first people in China to undergo cryogenic preservation after his wife, Zhan Wenlian, died of lung cancer. The procedure, paid for by a science research institute, aimed to preserve her body for 30 years at a temperature of -196Β°C. While reports suggest that Zhan had consented to the process before passing away, this raises questions about whether Gui's decision was made with his wife's best interests in mind.

Fast forward to 2020, when Gui began dating again, sparking an online debate on Chinese social media. This new partner, Wang Chunxia, has been described by Gui as "utilitarian" - a relationship that serves a practical purpose rather than one driven by passion or love. The circumstances of their meeting are shrouded in mystery, with some reports suggesting that Gui's severe gout attack left him bedridden for several days and prompted him to seek out a new partner.

While it's impossible to know the full extent of Gui's motivations, one thing is clear: this is a story about human frailty, the inability to let go, and the complexities of love. For those who have lost a loved one, the prospect of moving on can be daunting, and cryogenic preservation offers a tantalizing promise of preserving memories and relationships.

However, it's also an exercise in hubris - attempting to defy death with science alone. As West-Knights astutely notes, there is no proof that frozen bodies will ever be brought back to life, and the vast majority of those currently preserved remain a chilling reminder of humanity's limitations. Despite this, Gui's story remains a poignant reminder that love knows no bounds - not even those imposed by death or science.

Ultimately, it's up to each individual to weigh in on whether Gui's actions were right or wrong. One thing is certain: the human heart remains a mysterious and fragile entity, prone to taking the most unexpected paths.
 
omg this guy gui junmin is literally freezing his ex wife's body just to move on with his life ? like what kind of guy does that 🀯? i mean i get it he was grieving but cryo preservation isn't exactly a long-term solution... and now he's dating again? Wang Chunxia is like the human version of a backup plan πŸ€·β€β™€οΈ. anyhoo, at least his wife's body is literally frozen in time, can we say that's some kinda weird legacy love πŸ’€
 
I'm low-key concerned about Gui Junmin's whole situation πŸ€”. On one hand, I get that he's grieving and wants to hold onto memories of his wife, but freezing her body for 30 years is some next-level stuff πŸ’€. It raises so many questions about what he's really trying to do here - keep her with him in spirit or just avoid dealing with the pain of loss?

And then there's this new partner Wang Chunxia... I don't know if I'd call their relationship "utilitarian" πŸ€·β€β™€οΈ, but it does seem like they're more focused on convenience than passion. Has Gui even considered what his wife would want for him? It's all pretty complicated and a little sad to watch.

I guess what I'm trying to say is that human hearts are weird and messy, and sometimes we make choices that don't exactly align with our own best interests πŸ˜”. Anyway, just my two cents... feel free to disagree or whatever πŸ€·β€β™‚οΈ!
 
I'm so done with people being all judgy about Gui Junmin's situation πŸ™„. Like, he's still grieving for his wife and trying to move on, but everyone's out here acting like he's some kind of monster πŸ’”. Newsflash: life's complicated, and sometimes you gotta take things one step at a time. Cryogenic preservation might not be the most conventional way to deal with loss, but hey, it's better than letting go completely 😊.

And let's talk about how Wang Chunxia just kinda walks into his life and becomes his new partner πŸ’β€β™€οΈ? That's some next-level stuff right there. I'm not saying Gui didn't have a hand in their relationship, but come on, Wang Chunxia seems like she's got some major game 😜.

It's all about perspective, you know? Some people might see Gui's actions as selfish or inconsiderate, but what if he's just trying to honor his wife's memory in the only way that feels right to him? πŸ€” At the end of the day, love is weird and messy, and cryogenic preservation might be one wild card in the deck πŸƒ.
 
omg u gotta feel bad 4 gui - he's been thru so much & still trying 2 move on πŸ€• but at da same time, its kinda rite 4 him 2 find love again after losin his wife πŸ˜” n i think its also kinda cool dat hes tryna preserve her memory in this way πŸ’” cryonics is def a wild topic 2 explore & raises so many questions about what it means 2 be alive or not 🀯
 
idk how gui feels about wang chunxia but i think its a bit messed up that he brought her into his life like she's just gonna be there for him when hes out of options or his body gets thawed out lol what if shes got her own feelings and stuff?? seems like hes trying to hold onto zhan's memory way too tight
 
I'm totally with Gui Junmin on this one 😊. I mean, who wouldn't want to hold onto memories of their partner forever? πŸ™ Cryogenic preservation might be untested tech, but it's still a way for him to keep Zhan Wenlian close, even if it's not in the classical sense. Plus, love is all about accepting each other's quirks and frailties πŸ’•. Wang Chunxia seems like a cool dude too - giving Gui a new lease on life without expecting anything fancy in return πŸ€—. It's all about finding meaning in our own way, right? And let's be real, the idea of being frozen and revived is just straight outta science fiction awesomeness πŸ”₯. So, if cryonics helps Gui move forward (or not), then I say go for it! πŸ’–
 
can you imagine having your partner cryogenically frozen after they passed away just so you could potentially "revisit" them? πŸ€” it's like, I get that grief can be overwhelming and wanting to hold onto memories of someone is natural... but at what cost? Gui's new partner seems pretty utilitarian about the whole thing too, which makes me wonder if she's in it for the novelty or genuinely cares about him 😐. either way, it's a super complicated situation that raises more questions than answers πŸ€·β€β™€οΈ
 
πŸ€” I gotta say, this guy Gui Junmin is straight outta some sorta crazy movie 🎬. Like, cryopreserving his wife's body for 30 years and then moving on with someone new? That's just messed up πŸ’”. And the fact that he even brought her back online (lol, kinda) after she passed away? No thanks πŸ˜‚. I get that people grieve differently, but this is like trying to outsmart death itself πŸ”₯. As for Wang Chunxia, I gotta wonder if she knows what she's getting herself into πŸ€·β€β™€οΈ. All in all, it's a wild ride, and I'm not sure how to feel about it 😩. One thing's for sure, though - this dude is definitely making headlines for the wrong reasons πŸ“°.
 
I was just thinking about that weirdly fascinating documentary I watched last night about how some people have these crazy pet snakes as pets 🐍... like, seriously, who does that? Anyway, this story about Gui and his wife is actually kinda making me think of my own grandma's birthday party 10 years ago, where she made this super embarrassing cake with candles shaped like cats... lol, anyway. Cryogenic preservation, huh? I've heard those things are super expensive, but what's the point if you're just gonna be frozen for who knows how long? πŸ€” and then there's Gui's new partner, Wang Chunxia... sounds like she's kinda got her work cut out for her πŸ˜‚
 
πŸ€” I'm so curious about Gui Junmin's story, but at the same time, it makes me really uncomfortable 😳. I mean, he's still grieving his wife and then just starts dating again without even knowing her new partner that well? It feels like he's using cryogenic preservation as an excuse to hold onto the past instead of moving on πŸ’”.

And what's with this "utilitarian" relationship thing? Is it really okay for him to be using his new partner just to alleviate his own emotional pain? πŸ€·β€β™€οΈ It raises so many questions about consent and boundaries in relationships. I'm all for people finding love again, but can't we expect more from someone who's been through something like this?

Cryogenic preservation is already a pretty wild idea, and now it's being used to try to cheat death? πŸ’€ I don't know what's more messed up - the fact that Gui did it in the first place or that he's still trying to use it to find love again πŸ˜‚.
 
This story is giving me all the feels πŸ’”πŸ˜‚ I mean, who wouldn't want to preserve their loved one's memory for 30 years? It's like something out of a sci-fi movie πŸš€ But at the same time, it's also kinda creepy 😳 I don't know if I'd be okay with my significant other moving on with someone else while their "frozen" partner is still out there... it's just too much to handle πŸ˜…. What do you guys think? Should Gui be allowed to move on or should he stick with the frozen package? πŸ€”
 
OMG, this is like sooo deep 🀯! I mean, can you even blame Gui for trying to hold on to Zhan? It's like, losing someone is the worst thing ever, and cryogenic preservation was supposed to be this magical way to keep her memory alive forever πŸ’”. But at the same time, it's kinda messed up that he started dating again after only 3 years πŸ€·β€β™€οΈ...I mean, I get that life moves on and all, but Zhan's still frozen away somewhere, and it's like, what does Gui want? To be with someone new or to just keep his heart in a box πŸ’€.

And don't even get me started on Wang Chunxia - what's up with this "utilitarian" relationship πŸ€”? Like, is she really just there for him because he needs someone to take care of him or is it something more? I guess we'll never know, and honestly, it kinda freaks me out 😳.

What do you guys think, though? Is Gui a hero for trying to preserve their love or a jerk for moving on so fast? πŸ€¦β€β™‚οΈ Let's discuss! πŸ’¬
 
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