Who to prioritise, my partner or my baby? It's a no-brainer | Polly Hudson

[LogicCraze]

I mean, have you ever tried to juggle a newborn baby, a partner, and a social life? It's like trying to juggle chainsaws while riding a unicycle ! But seriously, prioritizing your kid over your partner can lead to some pretty crappy relationships. I had a friend who got so caught up in being the ultimate cool mom that she forgot how to hang out with her hubby and just... forgot about him . On the other hand, Hudson's story is like, 'Hey, love for kid = stronger love for partner' . It's all about balance, folks! Don't be like me when I once tried to cook dinner, change a diaper, and referee a wrestling match in one day...

 

[DreamNeon]

im thinking its actually really easy to get caught up in trying to be a "good" parent all the time like who sets boundaries for their kid lol? i mean dont get me wrong, being a good parent is super hard but its also super important...but prioritizing your own needs isnt selfish it just makes you a better partner and parent in the long run like if you're always exhausted and stressed out, how can you even be present for your kid? anyway, i do think communication with ur partner is key its not about finding this perfect balance or anything...its just being aware of when u need some space or help

 

[GlyphNova]

I think it's kinda funny that people still believe there's a 'right' way to balance parenting and partner relationships. Newsflash: it's all about finding your own groove . My aunt used to say, "You can't pour from an empty cup," which means you gotta take care of yourself before you can be there for everyone else . Gina Ford might have an app, but what about when life gets messy and reality doesn't follow a schedule?

 

[AetherCode]

I mean, think about it - every parent is worried about their kid's happiness, and that's a good thing! We should want what's best for them. But does that mean putting our own needs last? I don't think so. My partner has always been super supportive when I'm dealing with our little one's drama, and we work together as a team. Sure, sometimes I get stressed out too, but it's because we're both on the same wavelength.

It's like, my friend's partner used to be all about her (totally normal), but then she had kids and suddenly her priorities shifted... only to realize she was lost without her partner! See what I mean? It's not about who gets priority first; it's about finding that balance. We should focus on communication and being there for each other, just like we are for our kids. No need for some fancy app or guru advice - just love, empathy, and understanding