The death of the living room: 'It's hard to invite people over – not everyone wants to sit on a bed'

A growing trend in the UK rental market is the disappearance of the living room. Georgie, 27, who moved into a house-share with four strangers last year, was initially not concerned about the lack of a lounge area. The property had been converted from what was once a lounge to an inaccessible storage space. Her experience highlights how the absence of a living room can lead to feelings of isolation and disconnection. Georgie's friends rarely visited her home, as there wasn't enough space for them to sit comfortably.

Research conducted by SpareRoom reveals that 29.8% of rooms listed on their website were in properties without a living room, with this number rising to 41.2% in London. According to SpareRoom's research, almost half (49%) of renters surveyed reported that the living room in their home was now being used as a bedroom.

The concept of shared leisure space has undergone significant changes since its inception. With advancements in technology, watching TV and streaming content have become increasingly individualized activities. In 2024, it was reported that less than half of 16- to 24-year-olds watch traditional TV at home.

However, not everyone sees the loss of the living room as a negative. Imogen, who moved to London in 2011, shared her experience of repurposing spaces with her housemates. The small kitchen became a social hub where they cooked, ate, and socialized together.

Most architects and interior designers advise against removing the living room. Peter Markos, an architect, experienced firsthand how difficult it was to live without a lounge area. He moved back to Birmingham to afford more space. Regan Billingsley, an interior designer, is open to the idea of rooms evolving based on user needs. She suggests that open-plan spaces can be layered with texture and lighting to create natural gathering points.

For many, having a living room is essential for fostering conversation, relaxation, and connection in the home. The absence of this space can lead to feelings of isolation and disconnection.
 
People are just losing touch with what's important - human interaction 🤔. A living room isn't just about watching TV or lounging around, it's about having a space where you can hang out with others, share stories, and create memories. With everyone being glued to their screens all the time, it's no wonder we're losing that communal vibe.

I mean, I've got friends who live in tiny apartments with "lofts" or whatever - there's literally no sitting area except on a super tight couch. It's like, what's the point of having a roof over your head if you can't even chill with people? 🤷‍♀️ And don't even get me started on how weird it is to have a bedroom that doubles as a living room... it's just not right.

I think this trend of removing living rooms says a lot about our society, but let's be real, it's also kinda sad 😔. We're so focused on being efficient and cost-effective that we've lost sight of what really matters - connection and community.
 
I'm kinda shocked by all these houses without lounges 😂. I mean, we're always talking about how important social skills are in school, but it seems like we've forgotten that outside too 🤷‍♀️. My friends and I would always hang out in the common room during breaks, now it's a total no-go because of space issues. It's crazy how tech advancements have made us all binge-watch our fave shows alone 😒. Can't imagine living without a comfy spot to chill with mates or just relax after a long day 🤯.
 
I THINK ITS REALLY WEIRD THAT PEOPLE ARE NOT EVEN NEEDING LIVING ROOMS ANYMORE!!! 🤔 THEY JUST WANT TO BE ALONE WITH THEIR PHONES AND STREAM THEIR FAVE SHOWS OR GAMES! 💻 BUT FOR ME, A LIVING ROOM IS WHERE IT'S AT! IT'S LIKE, THE HEART OF THE HOME WHERE YOU CAN RELAX WITH FRIENDS AND FAMILY. WE HAD A HOUSE SHARED LAST YEAR AND WE USED TO HAVE LOTS OF PARTIES THERE, NOW ITS JUST SITTING EMPTY 🤷‍♀️. I KNOW SOME PEOPLE MIGHT SAY ITS NOT AS NEEDED AS IT WAS BEFORE BUT FOR ME, IT'S JUST NOT THE SAME WITHOUT ONE!
 
You know what's up 🤔? This trend where living rooms are just disappearing is crazy! I mean, I get it, spaces need to evolve with our tech-savvy lives, but can't we still have some chill vibes at home? It's not just about watching TV or streaming content; it's about having a space to hang out, catch up with friends, and unwind. The fact that 29.8% of rooms on SpareRoom are without living rooms is wild 🤯. I'm all for repurposing spaces like Imogen did in her kitchen, but not at the expense of having a dedicated lounge area. Architects and designers say it's hard to live without one? Yeah, no kidding! 😂 For me, that space is where the magic happens – conversation, laughter, memories... you can't replicate that with just a couch in the bedroom 🛏️.
 
I'm so over this trend 🤯! I mean, what's next? No bedrooms either?! 😂 Just kidding, sorta. But seriously, I think it's a bummer when you can't hang out with friends in your own home. We need spaces to chill and catch up, not just hide away in our rooms watching Netflix on our phones 📱. I love the idea of repurposing spaces like Imogen did, though! My small kitchen is my fave spot to cook and have a snack with the squad 👫. But if someone's living room gets converted into storage, that's just sad 😔. Can't we just keep our lounges comfy and cozy? 🛋️
 
I think its kinda wild how our living rooms are being phased out in favor of more functional spaces... like I get it, with everyone glued to their screens all day, we don't really need a TV room anymore 😂 but at the same time, where's the chill? 🤔 I mean, my friends and I always hang out in each other's living rooms. It's not just about the space itself, but about having a place to relax and be social together. Plus, it feels like we're losing this communal aspect of our homes that used to bring us all closer together... 🏠💕
 
I'M LIKE, SO OVER THE LACK OF LIVING ROOMS IN UK HOUSES!!! 🤯 IT'S LIKE THEY'RE JUST TAKING AWAY THE SOCIAL BUTTERfly THAT MAKES HOMES FEEL LIKE HOMES!!! 🐝 I mean, i get it, spaces are getting smaller and people need more room for their stuff, but can't we just find ways to repurpose the spaces instead of removing them altogether?!?! 😕 like imogen said, her kitchen became this amazing social hub where they all hung out together... that's what i want from my living space!!! 🤗
 
🤔 i feel like this trend is gonna lead to people feeling super disconnected from each other... my friends & i used to have epic movie nights at each other's places, but now it feels weird having a bunch of strangers living together without a comfy space for us all to chill. maybe with open-plan spaces & smart design we can find ways to make up for the lack of a lounge area 🏠💡
 
I'm getting so tired of seeing apartments without even a tiny bit of living room 🤯 I mean what's next? No kitchen no bathroom either?! 😂 It's crazy how people are just accepting it as normal. Like, where's the social aspect in that?! Do we all just become hermits now because our homes don't have a comfy place to hang out? 🤔

And don't even get me started on repurposing spaces like Imogen did... I love the idea of cooking and eating together with friends, but come on, it's not the same as having a actual living room 🍴👥. Those architects and designers are right, a living room is a must-have for conversation and relaxation.

I'm all for evolution in design and user needs, but not at the cost of our social lives 📈💼. Can't we find a balance between techy individual activities and good old-fashioned human interaction? 🤷‍♀️
 
You know what they say, "no lounge area means no social life" lol 😂. But seriously, it's crazy how we've lost the concept of shared spaces in our homes. I mean, who needs a living room when you have Netflix? 📺 Just kidding, but for real, it's not all bad. My friend repurposed their kitchen into a chill zone and now they're always having movie nights with their housemates 🍿👫. Maybe we just need to rethink what a living room looks like in the digital age 🤔? It's def an interesting trend, but I'm still Team Lounge Room All The Way 👍
 
I'm not sure I agree or disagree with this trend 🤔. I mean, I get it, spaces are getting smaller and we're living more nomadic lifestyles. But I've seen this happen in my friends' apartments too, and while some people have made do without a traditional living room, others seem really unhappy about it 😐.

I think the key is that we need to rethink what a living room even is 🤷‍♀️. Like, who needs a big space for conversation when you can create cozy nooks in smaller spaces? And with technology, we're watching our fave shows on our own devices anyway, so why do we need a communal space for that? 📺

But at the same time, I know how important socializing and relaxation are to us humans ❤️. So maybe instead of getting rid of living rooms entirely, we could just... repurpose them or make them more flexible? Like, have a big area for lounging but also some smaller spaces for cooking, eating, or just chillin' 🍴💆‍♀️.

It's all about finding that middle ground and making it work for everyone 🤝.
 
It's crazy how things have changed 🤯. I remember when I was in my early 20s, we'd always hang out at each other's places, whether it was a living room, kitchen, or just a random spare room. Nowadays, it seems like everyone's got their own little bubble and don't really want to share their space with others 🤷‍♀️.

I mean, I get it, technology has made us all more introverted, but can't we find a way to still have that social vibe? Like, my friend Imogen's kitchen thing is cool, but it's not the same as having a proper living room where you can just chill with people. And what about when you've got guests over and they're all stuck in your bedroom because there isn't enough space 🤦‍♀️.

I'm all for adapting to new needs and stuff, but I think we should still prioritize having some kind of shared space that's just for hanging out and being social 🍺. It's not just about the physical space itself, it's about creating those connections with others and feeling like you're part of a community 🌎.
 
I'm getting really concerned about the state of our homes these days 🤯. I mean, who needs a living room anyway? It's just an old-fashioned concept, right? But seriously, what's going on with all these properties without a lounge area? It's like we're losing touch with each other as humans 😔.

I had friends over recently and we ended up sitting in the kitchen because there wasn't enough space in the living room 🍳. We were just chillin', having a good time, but it felt weird not having that cozy spot to hang out. And don't even get me started on the fact that most of our rooms are being used as bedrooms now 🛏️.

I think we need to rethink our priorities when it comes to home design. What's more important, watching TV alone or having a space where you can connect with people? It's not just about physical space; it's about creating memories and experiences together 📚💕. Let's make sure we're not losing the art of human connection in our homes 👫.
 
OMG u guys I'm literally so done w/ the lack of livin rooms rn 🤯🏠 like what's the point of even havin a house if it's just gonna be a storage space? 🚮 my friends and I were talkin about this & we all agreed that havin a comfy place 2 chill is SO important 💆‍♀️

I read dis article bout how many ppl r losin their livin rooms 2 storage spaces or somethin & it's just crazy 🤯 like 29.8% of rooms listed on SpareRoom were like dat! and did u know that almost half of renters r usin their livin room as a bedroom?! 😴

But honestly, I think it's cool how ppl r findin new ways 2 repurpose spaces like Imogen & Regan Billingsley r killin it w/ open-plan designs 💡 maybe we don't need a traditional livin room 2 b happy 🤷‍♀️ but somethin's gotta give, right? 🤔
 
🤣 I mean, can you blame 'em? No living room means no chillin' with mates 🍺😂, but on the other hand, it's like, who needs that much space when you've got Netflix and a comfy bed 😴? I'm not saying it's all sunshine and rainbows, though – how about those awkward dinner parties or family gatherings? Not exactly ideal without a living room 🤪. But hey, maybe we're just old-school thinking 🙃... after all, my aunt still lives in her tiny flat from the 90s with zero social space 💁‍♀️ and she's still kickin'! Maybe this is the future of chillin' – small spaces, big personalities? 🤷‍♂️
 
the concept of shared leisure space has totally changed over the years 🤯, like we're all so glued to our screens now 📺. i feel like imogen's story is kinda cool tho, repurposing spaces with your housemates can be super fun 👫, especially in smaller kitchens that become social hubs. but for some ppl, having a living room is like a necessity, it's where you hang out with friends and family, watch movies, play games... its just a space to relax and be human 🤗. architects and designers might say no to removing the living room, but i think it's all about finding alternative ways to create those spaces that work for everyone 🏠💡
 
🤔 I think its wild how spaces are being repurposed like that. People are so used to individual activities with their own devices now 📱. Like what's the point of having a living room if no one's just gonna hang out there? My aunt moved into this tiny studio flat and everyone in the building has converted their rooms into chill zones 🛋️. Its like, social spaces are supposed to be public, you know? You can't have a real home without a space for sharing with others 👥.
 
OMG u no?? its like 1/2 of all rooms on SpareRoom dont even hav a livin room lol! I feel yaaas Georgie's story tho, I no how isolatin it can be wen ur home feels all cramped & awkward. But at the same time, Imogen's take is kinda cool... havin a kitchen as a social hub is def doable! And i dont blame ppl 4 wantin more space or changin up their layout. Its like, how we use spaces r evolvin with tech & stuff. Can we just get comfy w/ no TV in the livin room tho?
 
🤔 I'm all about that open-plan life 📚💻 anymore, but at the same time, I get what Imogen's saying - repurposing spaces can actually bring people together. It's like, if you're not using your living room for chillin', why not use it for something else? Like, have you seen those fancy floor-to-ceiling bookshelves 📚💸 that double as a coffee table? It's all about making the most of space and getting creative with how we live.

But, for me, when I'm feelin' lonely or need some downtime, there's nothin' like curlin' up in my own living room with a good book 📖 or binge-watchin' my fave show Netflix 📺. It's that personal space that lets me unwind and recharge.

I think the key is findin' that balance between livin' small and makin' the most of your space. Like, Regan's idea about layerin' texture and lighting in open-plan spaces? Genius 👏. It's all about creatin' those natural gathering points without losin' out on personal space altogether.
 
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